Do you ever get the feeling that you’ve chosen this lonely life in order to keep all the other crap that invades our life far from our reality? Sometimes I wonder if I’m crazy spending all this time cramped up in my office. Does everyone else out there feel like their an over-avoider?
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March 14, 2010
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No, I live by the Jimmy Buffett school of writing. Live it first, then write it down.
I’m not sure what you mean by over-avoider. I’ve been called anti-social. (I’m a novelist.) I know I’ve often, and maybe too often, lived only while I write, in what I write. And isolation? You tell yourself you’re used to it, claim you don’t mind it, maintain it’s the necessary condition. My isolation at a keyboard started when I was in high school. So you know (considering the parameters of this website) how long it’s been! It becomes a very difficult habit to break, even when you want to.
Strange you feel alone – I joined a writers group and have found the meetings and workshops are absolutely wonderful – we share our work and any comments are given with sensitivity and postive encouragement. When I was writing my NaNoWriMo last November I took my laptop to soccer games and gym classes so I most certainly was not alone. Our web site may inspire you: http://wfscsherwoodpark.com we welcome virtual members as well as local.
I tried one writers group and I thought it was going to be great but they were a little clicky. I couldn’t get a word in edgewise so I eventually bowed out. I may start looking for another local one. Thanks for the link, I’ll check it out.
I’m just beginning to write. I love it. I’m an artist, and in that we are connected. I was a sculptor for over twenty years. I loved it also, and was successful. I just add that to say, when I decided to go into a different direction, I wasn’t quitting, I just needed something new
If a painter changes mediums, say from oil to water color, no one will give it a second thought. If a writer changes genres, say from novels to essays, also no problem. But dare an artist in one discipline switch to another discipline, entirely, well, now you’ve opened up perhaps a poem of mud pies. or a sculpture of short stories.
Sound to me like you might give yourself a well earned sabbatical. Since I’ve been a clay artist, I know how healing that medium can be. I’ve taught many people over the years. It has helped some get redirected.. Have fun.