Tag Archives: work

How to be myself alone at 62 Most Liked

I’m trying to figure out how to be myself alone after sudden unexpected loss of my husband of 41 years, who was a gentleman, a hard worker, and enjoyed taking care of me.  I’m not wanting another mate. I want to enjoy life as a singleread more »

Counseling while you are separated and your husband is still seeing another woman

My husband and I have been married for 36 years.  He is having an “emotional affair” with another woman that started as a friendship 2 years ago.  He said once that he loves her, but not since.  After a lot of back and forth, I moveread more »

Why I Stopped Running! Most Liked

Since I was 19, I’ve been running. Jogging for exercise.  I’m not an elite runner by any stretch of the imagination.  But I’ve been a consistent runner, until now. Over the years, I’ve run only 2 half marathons, one flat, one hillread more »

The menstrual cup: An alternative to Kegel exercises for women?

Though not designed to be an alternative or supplement to Kegel exercises for women, menstrual cups are being used for this purpose. Pre- and menopausal women may pass this device right on by as their tampon days become more numbered (or nonexisteread more »

Ok now what

I saw the lawyer today. So what does one do at 53 I havent worked in 21 years. I’m disabled. I have a son who is disabled who is 30 but is really more like 9 years old. I have no money and the lawyer wants 2000.00 just to start. Lawyer wasnread more »


Hi there gals! Just wondering if there is anyone else out there in their early 60′s and retired with their husbands? We have been home together all day for about 5 years now.  we actually get along pretty well seeing each otheread more »

Natural-no chemical deoderant

Hi All,  I just thought I would give you all a tip about something in your home right now that you can make your own deodorant with. The reason I have been doing this for some time now, is because Breast cancer is in the family.  I often read more »

Worst day of my life… Most Liked Hot Conversation

Everything was beautiful. The bride, the flowers, the venue, the food…my ridiculously expensive dress. What should have been a wonderful day for me too…the mother of the bride…left me feeling empty, alone, and humiliated.read more »


hello I was married for 26 years, husband took left for PA in 2012 to recover from back surgery and pain drug problem…worked as computer eng.I never worked and bam…He meet someone on line and got engaged before he mailed me non contestread more »

The price of my getting along with adult kids is one-way understanding.

I’m not ever supposed to be disappointed in their decisions, just have total capacity to forgive, forget, not mention, and complain to somebody else, like my friends at VN. I do understand the busy years, when both parents are workingread more »