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• Yes, and I work at not labelling any part of me "ugly ugly".  I fail to see a solution in that label.  I maintain that the vagina inspector is retired and it is up to us to make peace with the whole body and body image thing.  Otherwise I am worki
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• Do whatever you want, just clean the slate first.  This is walking a tight-rope and it is time to do it without a net (home base to "fall back on").   The slate needs to be clean so that it is just you and what you want involved.  The hard conve
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• I counsel and support women going through divorce. I am still in training and I'm not charging a fee for this service. If you would like to talk more about your situation, then please get in touch. I myself have been through a separation/divorce afte
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• Hi Cathy, I am so sorry to hear about your marital/divorce problems. I do understand on one level what you are going through. I went through a similar experience myself. I was married for 22 years and found out that my ex-husband was having an affair
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• Hi Anonymous2, You've made some crucial points about intimacy in your post : You call him your "lover" ( truly an intimate term), and yet you say, that he will "not consider getting to know me better" as a possible lifelong partner du
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