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• I've always thought that viewing porn has to do with mens fantasies about control etc and usually has nothing to do with their real relationships. Men who need to view it are not going to change unless they become bored with it. I had a bf who admi
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• My marriage ended after 30 years, 3 years ago. I made a clean break, moved to a foreign country, after thinking about it and planning for five years. I was fortunate that my ex largely agreed that we needed to go our separate ways, and although I h
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• Shirley - that's funny but what you are saying is true about the men...first sex, then a little company, then back to the dating sites. :) There are too many fish on line to stick with just one so they go back to see what else is available. I am a me
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• I may be close to the extreme example of leaving everything behind. Divorced after many years, kids, memories and so on. I could not stand the thought of suddenly being single among my married friends, so, as I had dual citizenship I chose to move
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• I'll bet if you get some moderate but persistent exercise, lose a bit of Pudge...you'll start feeling a lot better and looking good too! Even a brisk walk for a mile or two, some stretching, then a warm shower and put on something sexy?..Takes a lot
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