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divorce after 38 year marriage

I live in a state that has no fault divorce laws..Division of assets/debts/pension would be  50/50..I am the one that wants the divorce..I am living behind a huge wall of fear though..I am recently retired and  am living on a modest pensread more »

And I thought my decision to divorce after 39 years was my final decision!! NOT! Hot Conversation

I am in desperate need of the wisdom and common sense of my fellow VN sisters.  I left my husband of 39 years in 2011 and the divorce was final in 2012. Two weeks after I left he was told that his cancer had returned. 8 months later he had a Boneread more »

Friendship in midlife: What to do when a friend is sick or dying

Seeing a friend suffer through long illness or death is one of the hardest things you will have to face, but you aren’t powerless.read more »

A Tribute To Yoga

A humorous, yet sincere tribute to yoga from my beginner perspective: Ode to Yoga I did not like my yoga class.It was a big pain in the ass.But I was getting pains and aches. I’m 50 plus, forread more »

I have more monetary wealth than he does.

I lost my soul mate in high school. Have loved his memory for 49 years. Met up with him after his marriage failed, after my marriage failed, in between lovers. . . Offered myself completely.  He says he has always loved me over everyone else̷read more »

How can I overcome the depression? Hot Conversation

My husband of 19 years decided to divorce me two weeks ago. It was a total surprise to me. He met someone else. I am 50 years old and have a 16 years old at home. My husband has much higher income and he is trying to get out cheap. I can’tread more »

My Husband Sabotages My Diet

Help! I’m trying to lose 20 pounds, and my husband is constantly sabotaging me under the guise of being “sweet” and “bringing you a treat.” Today he brought home a raspberry pie in butter pie crust. Yesterday it waread more »

How to rise above being left to run family business after divorce to husband of 30 years.

I am so sorry for what may be a lengthy post, I had been with my husband for 30 years, we had been having problems with our business & marriage, we worked 24/7 together, along with our eldest son.with horses, which is a bit of a closed rank buread more »

Can’t maintain an erection

I’m 50 and this past year have been dating a man 59 who is so wonderful and fun but can’t maintain an erection.  He’s so embarassed by this that he hardly wants sex.  Plus the fact that he heard about my ex-husband and how actiread more »

Blindsided

My husband has to work in another province because of his type of job. We celebrate our 25th anniversary on August 27th. Last Wednesday was my birthday. The card my husband sent me had to with rubbing his genitals all over everything I own when read more »