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• Great comments!, Thank you. I have a good paying job. He is retired and with a lot of time in is hands. We have been together forn 20 years. I particularly don't want to be on my own now. He has some good traits but I do feel unappreciated.
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• Hello roadrunner:  When you want to contact them, do so, you can send photos of something you have done, or something you have seen.  It also seems to help when one offers to buy dinner, lunch, sunday brunch, or a "catch-up coffee date".  Not too
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• I'm so sorry that you have to do this. But, it's the humane thing to do. It will take time to heal, so give yourself the time that you need. My sister and brother in law have out down 2 of their 3 dogs in the last yr. I'm not sure they will sur
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• Thank you, ladies. As side note 1.I am regaining appreciation for how much work he does save me. 2.His antsy perpetual preparation and looking after things (in addition to good genes) may be one reason why he has survived. 3. Off topic, now that I am
  In "Husband driving me nuts"
• Well it sounds like your boyfriend is being rather childish and immature. I would stop calling him and not contact him at all. The ball would be in his court. If he wanted to talk to me, HE would have to make the first move, and then we would have
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