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Tag Archives: divorce

stuck in healing process after husband left after 40 marriage

I think of myself as a reasonably strong person. I have overcome many hugh things in my life. My husband and I had what I thought was a good marriage with the normal ups and downs. We always had financial problems due to his inability to seek helpread more »

divorce after 35 years- scared

I’ve gotten used to a emotionally abusive realtionship but the last 7 years of my husbnad’s alcoholism has been what has pushed me to the edge. Just this week I said I wanted a divorce, but I know I can’t really do this now. OUr read more »

pain

hi…im confused right now..im working abroad when i met this guy and day by day i started to have a feeling towards him because he is so nice guy.we go out during week ends.i want to start a relationship with him.he is divorced he said.but heread more »

Unwanted divorce after 30 years Hot Conversation

Hi ladies, I have been divorced for about three weeks now – separated for 3 and a half years. He fell out of love, but found someone else after 7 weeks (ten yers younger).  He was always a good husband and nice man but since turned iread more »

What’s wrong with me? Missing home!

As always I need a little help from my VN gals ! Been divorced a year but was separated 3 before. Was married 37 years. I’m in a beautiful new apartment for 3 months ( x in house). This house is on my family land where I spent most of my liread more »

Need a total reinvention Hot Conversation

Hi all, this is my first post on vibrant nation.  It will be a long one and will straddle many of the different topics but I need your guidance and your creativity.  Here is my situation: I have been an expat for the past 15 years.  I gread more »

Developing Friendships…After Divorce, After 50

Hi everyone, I’ve found so many posts on this site that I’ve related to I hope someone can relate and give advice to me. I’m 53, divorced 2 years and live in a community where I was very involved when my kids were iread more »

cut off from my grown kids

When my ex did not get everything and I was given 50%; he convinced my grown kids he was taken to the cleaners and that he is incapable of working anymore. He also denies he was unfaithful and that I “made it up” and must have had a breakdownread more »

Still in love with my highschool sweetheart.

50 years later, I am still in love with my high school flame. My parents made me marry a banker when I was 16. I had told him no, and they took me to Reno to marry him anyway. I was in love with a kid in school. He went on witread more »

starting over after divorce

After 35 years of marriage I will be a cliche, my husband is moving in with his girlfriend, who has money and can help hom have a cushy retirement, after going through our savings all we have is a house we bought 2 years ago, which has little equity,read more »