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What does Maria Shriver's report offer Boomer women like herself?

Vibrant women are under-represented in "A Woman's Nation," but Maria Shriver's project still offers inspiration for supporting the fastest-growing generation of women workers in history.
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In my last blog post I wrote about "A Woman's Nation," the project Maria Shriver launched this week to focus attention on a world in which women now make up 50% of the workforce.

Not "A Vibrant Woman's Nation"

While Shriver at 54 is herself a Vibrant Woman (a smart, successful woman over 50), her report pays little attention to issues directly affecting other women like her. It is apparently not "A Vibrant Woman's Nation."

This is disappointing, given that women over 50 represent the fastest-growing portion of the workforce – and the fact that women are more likely to be the leading breadwinner in Boomer households than any other.

Gloria Steinem offered another critique of the report this week, by noting that the risks of this report come from "portraying women’s arrival at 50/50 as an irresistible force that by itself 'changes everything.'"

That said, I strongly anyone interested in doing business with women to read the various articles and essays in the Shriver Report. First, reading it is an encouraging activity in itself. Without whitewashing the life of real women it portrays a world in which women's importance in all areas of activity is here to stay. That was not a foregone conclusion even 25 years ago.

Second, while the report alone won't improve the lives of women, reading and studying it can represent a real first step on the way to achieving the progress women's success requires.

What can the Shriver Report teach a Vibrant Nation?

With that perspective, what does it offer that might help those who do business with Boomer woman? Too much to cover here, but here are a few highlights:
  1. Workplace policies. In "Family Friendly for All Families," we learn that 27% of women respondents wanted to take time off from work to care for their parents but were not able to do so. We know that women are disproportionately responsible (compared to men) for childcare; but the study also suggests that women are even more disproportionately responsible than men for parental care; the caregiving burden is too often a woman's burden alone. Supporters of this Vibrant Nation should read the Shriver Report's recommendations that government increase its protection for women who take time off (and spend money) caring for their parents and other family members. Resources necessary to care for aging parents will grow much faster over the next ten years than additional resources needed for childcare.
  2. Women keep changing. I once heard the CEO of a multi-billion company complain about his women managers, "Every time we give them something, they decide they want something else!" Jamal Simmons, a male contributor to The Shriver Report, writes about men coming to terms with women's changing desires and goals over the course of her life (sometimes over the course of a day). In "Genders Full of Questions Marks," he writes that "The woman you commit to today may have the same name and Social Security number as the woman you are with tomorrow, but she may want completely different things in her life at different times in your life with her. The only remaining rule seems to be: Stay flexible." I can't think of a better message for the employers and marketers who work with Vibrant Women. Conclusion

    The Shriver Report has many failings. Presenting itself as a start turn for California's First Lady is one. Not addressing Vibrant Women directly is another. But if people who can make the world a better place for women read it and determine to incorporate some part of it in their own work, their businesses will thrive and they will make the world a better place for women – and men – of all ages. more flash forward»
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jrodmank@aol.com said to Stephen Reily - VN Founder
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It is interesting that we have a black president of the United States but have not have a woman president yet.  I suspect that is symbolic of an unspoken prejudice towards woman that is still widely prevelant in our society.  We are called upon to give a great deal to others and society.  We raise children, work, care for aging parents, do the majority of the cooking and cleaning in many instances yet still a lot of woman earn less money than their male counterparts.  Women are frequently judged on how we look.  NOW did not turn out to be the liberating force to assist woman that many of us hoped it would be back in the 60's and 70's.  Most of us have so much on our plates that we have very little time to be advocates for ourselves and other women until later in life. Kathleen

yakkity said to jrodmank@aol.com
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Oh, that's right! How dare we forget the American socio-political hierarcy?

  1. White men
  2. White women
  3. Black men
  4. Black women

Your first sentence reminds me of the hue and cry that arose over passage of the Fifteenth Amendment. Would a Black woman president have placated those [White] women who suffer under an "unspoken prejudice?" I doubt it. 

jrodmank@aol.com said to yakkity
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Yes, I think a black woman would have been a fresh breath of air for woman, at least for me.  It's not about color it is about sex and the unfortunate way that woman are treated in our country.  Having a black man elected as our president is historic and a real landmark if you consider how awful things were for black people when we were children. India and Britain have had female leaders yet we have not and I think that is sad.  Take care of yourself.  Kathleen

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