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• I agree with you both totally, but thought this might be a good issue to raise here.  I myself wouldn't go with a TV ad unless I knew it was exceptional medical practice.  I think again it is so good Robbie that you have raised this issue and educa
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• It is not true that there "are no enemies".  For me to swallow that whole I would have to be guileless and gullible.  There are people for whom I take great care.  The philosophy that says follow the evidence and predict the future.  I will abide
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• Hi Darcy I always appreciate your comments.  Emasculating a man means not letting him have his DNA role of being a man.  It happens when we take control and literally want to wear the pants versus letting him. It's very hard for Boomer women to
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• What is holding you back?  Are you ashamed that you married him and did not tell your parents?  That action alone speaks volumes to the isolation you will be subjected to.  I am certain your parents would rather have you back and alive than dead a
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• He says you "emasculate" him.  Well, and how do you "fix" it.  It seems like a word he was told to use, especially if he does not have a definition.  Usually it means he does not have a handle on who he is and what he stands for.  This is, more l
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