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• use 0.2% testosterone cream - no adverse effects of it.small  amount rubbed under upper arms nightly. it works in a few days.  you can also buy some fun toys, and lubricant, and it might reawaken you . the sex stores also have some lubes that cau
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• OMG... watermusic you're making me LOL... I just gave up perfection about 5 years ago... and I swear my life is easier in many ways and more fun... but every now and them procrastination (perfection) tries to raise her head... Thanks for sharing
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• What do I do if my children got into a fight. The girl is 21 and my son is 17? And they are not speaking.
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• You have already been given "solid advise" so I won't repeat it.  You've heard the expression, "first time shame on him; second time shame on you!".  This boyfriend has no place in your life, son or no son. Please run don't walk away from him and r
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• Exactly.  The strategy that works will immunize you from people "like that" forever.  Stop being so polite, practise "no" and nod and smile to avoid the ballistic attack.  Leave them standing with their own "stuff" and wondering where to put it. 
  In "Difficult People. Love Them Anyway."

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