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We all have those moments right before something happens when we simply know that it is going to happen. How do we know? Well, we can't explain it: we just know.
If this only happened once, we could call it a coincidence. But consider your own experience: I'm betting you have had this sensation way more often than just one time.
We are educated to value our analytical powers and to relegate our "hunches" to some vague second tier of significance. Yet time after time, we have experiences that suggest that this might be putting the order backwards.
What do you do when you get a strong feeling about something, a gut feeling that you can't explain rationally?
Do you trust your "sixth sense?"
Why do you think we have intuition in the first place?
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It doesn't surprise me to hear that you've always been intuitive, dynamomma. I understand what you're saying about having chalked up your knowing to an over-active imagination. I'm glad you were able to get in touch with that part of yourself (what a gift to meet that therapist who helped you validate it). I like the distinction you make about messages being value-neutral. I am learning to have great respect for the voice that is the knowing part of myself. I wish I had trusted it earlier, so I can relate to your comments on that point.
Our 6th sense is truly one of the mysteries of our mind!!! For years I ignored them OR went with them but only if I wanted to!!! The times I didn't follow my "gut feeling" proved to be a mistake. Some costly ones too!! So now I follow my intuition always and go with it.. I sometimes wonder what would have been if I hadn't gone with my gut feeling but most times I really don't want to know!
Trust these feelings...they are telling us something we probably already know but haven't had the time to think it through!!
It is survival at its most basic, when I listen it never fails me, when I don't I fail it.
Sunblossom, what a lovely way to put it. I agree that it is important to survival. Otherwise, I can't imagine why as human beings we ever would have developed it. I wish we were better at heeding it. I think we've forgotten it, or had it educated out of us.
I agree with you on both points, Sunblossom. Instinct may have developed among our early ancestor mothers as a way of protecting themselves and their offspring, attuning them to be sensitive to potential danger when the men were away from the tribe. Then, too, the men might have used that sense while on the hunt. Interesting.
You're right--that not-so-little voice will never let me down; however, there are times when I try to second guess it, only to be reminded that it does not take well to being ignored.
Great thread, SeaWriter.
This is very interesting referring to ancestral instincts....I have always been amazed how animals (thinking of my dog) who knew exactly what to do when she had her pups!!!It was also wonderful to see how protective she automatically became.
Hi Seawriter..Yes I do "listen"to my sixth sense...it is the part that is connected to whom I really am, and it knows me better than anyone , I sometimes call it the "first voice" I have been in tune to it more as I began to realize that I am who I am and many times i would not have been here if I had not listen, I have never been a follower, because i follow my sixth sense and therefore it keep me out of the mainstream, but yet not on the sideline....great post.
Hi, FayetteSIPP -- I like calling intuition the "first voice" and I think I'll start using that term as well. I like the way it assigns high value to it, and might help us hear what we would benefit from most. I think it's wonderful that you've always been in touch with this part of yourself.
I am always impressed by the softening and look of surprise I see in my clients when I support their tentative claims of being "psychic" or "having a feeling" about something. It's as if they are hearing for the first time in their lives that those impressions can be genuine and important.
I call it my still small voice. I've made major major deicsions in my life listening to the still small voice within. I sometimes have to get very very quiet and still to hear the voice. I also call it "my knower". I know in my knower.
Very nice, Catharine. "Be still and know..."
You're blessed that you are so confident in this voice. I'm working on it! Being still is the first step.
It works for me it is usually the "second" one which I call the "doubt voice" that I have to override...like the time i left the hospital in a rain storm and I always go on to the freeway all the way home....but this day the First voice said go out a totally different way , I stalled for a minute and at the last minute I turned to the direction of the First voice, when I got home on the news the freeway had been rushed by a river of water from a broken dam on the other side of town , hundred of cars were caught and flooded...this had never happen before...but my intuition First voice knew.
On Friday nights I make a list of sales we will go to as we garner antiques, art and other valuables, from advertised sources. But sometimes there is a sale and it's just a little sign on a post. As we cruise I often intuitively throw the agenda out the window and follow my gut to amazing finds. I'll say "you know Taisto, I have a feeling we should go to this one". It always turns out to be a goldmine. Yes, I listen to my gut. Especially when dealing with people. My weekday job involves clients and I have to chose them carefully. I always interview a client before I take the job. If my instinct feels troubled I turn it down.
This may seem funny , but our prices were the same for everyone....except there were certain "vibes " as to accept the job or not one way was to make the job at he highest end possible, and if we they still wanted the job done , we would do it knowing that the extra money was going to be earned , and it always worked out that way, but we felt we were paidfor the extra attention this client demanded....one such client looked up and down for something to be wrong, finally she said with a smug smile ...there is a spot you missed as he pointed to the lamp post..as we looked up to see a butterfly raised up where the "spot" was suppose to be and the "spot"flue away.. We never had to advertise for our service was by word of mouth kept us busy.
I thought I didn't have a sixth sense. That is before last summer. I was planning a trip and I usually plan it according to one specific thing I will be doing. All during the planing stage I had this feeling I shouldn't go. I even told co-workers about it. They said I shouldn't go. It was just little things that would go wrong. I still forged ahead and went. When I got to where I was going, my main activity had been cancelled that same day. I was very dissapointed. Having travelled so far, it took 8 hours of flights including airport waits to get there, I made the most of it and still had a great time touring.
I might have had this sixth sense all along but had never noticed it. Too busy I guess. It was so intense. Will I listen to it if it makes its appearance again? Not sure...
anir
Hi Anir,
I agree that we get too busy and life often gets so noisy around us that we can't hear ourselves. As Catharine suggested above, it takes a conscious effort to still ourselves so this voice can come to the surface.
Your example of having the feeling you shouldn't go and then having your event canceled is a great example of the sort of thing I'm talking about. In this case, you decided to ignore your intuition. I wonder, as you mentioned, what you'll do next time?
I try to always follow my intutiion because it's almost always right. I think women are very developed in this area because we are the keepers of the home, and family. We need this to do our job.
I wonder what happens to so many women who are "shocked" that their mate is being unfaithful. I believe they have been warned by the 'Voice" and they ignore it...Do you think?
FayetteSIPP, I often think this is the case, not only with disloyal spouses but also, for example, with individuals who commit violent crimes ("he was such a nice man -- I never thought he'd do something like this").
I think we condemn ourselves for being "negative" and we suppress impressions that don't align with the picture we prefer to hold of ourselves (as in, "I'm a kind person and I don't think bad things about people"). We talk ourselves out of believing what we don't want to believe.
As women, I think this makes us vulnerable to men whose motives are not in our best interest, because we are disinclined to follow our hunches that we may be in trouble.
I agree with you, I remember as a young girl I had a friend who had an "uncle" who loved the kids and always bought us donuts and was friendly, but never approached me or anyone AI knew, but even as a child I was a little Leary of him, when I was a few years older I stopped to say hello to "uncle --" He asked me to do something that was rather silly, to make noise with bottle!! I had no idea what that was about but I refused to do it and left m never to visit him again, later I found out that he was a "Masturbationist" and over the years it developed into more weird actions and finally he molested a little girl. It appeared that when we were young and would be dancing, he was never around to watch , he was off doing something to the noise,,,the children who were playing and dancing nor our parents would have guess that , but I felt something was not right...and I was right, so even children have this ability to just know something isn't right.
I think children often know things without knowing what it is that they know. Fortunately for you, you trusted that sense you had that all was not right with this man. If you had told an adult, they might have tried to talk you out of it (or shamed you out of it) and told you you were being silly.
I guess why I didn't try to explain...back in those days children were seen not heard....I once told someone about a situation that was, equally wrong that involved a friend of mine and the adult said it was not her business......sad when people will not speak out but sometimes the pay back is more than some people feel that they can handle.
And the metaphysical community is now suggesting that children have special spiritual awareness. They have given labels like Indigo, Crystal, Rainbow, Star Seeds to these special abilities. Look some of them up, they are quite fascinating to be sure.
God bless, J
I have read about the Indigos and Crystals and have met some of them, I don't know much about the Rainbow and the Star Seeds. I am sure I can read about them on the internet. I believe they will be a large part in the change of 2012. I believe in 2012 we will have changes that will take us from this troubled world we are in and bring back the beauty and harmony that it is started out to be. I guess this is just my opinion.
Oh changes are afoot, there is no doubt! But nothing happens over night. It is a gradual process. And looking at the new born with special gifts of the spirit is important to these changes.
The earliest indigos was apparently 100 years ago. They were the spiritual forerunners (some call warriors - I don't like that word) to all that was to follow.
In the 1940s was a real influx. But I believe we have to look at the whole picture. Following the second world war was a time of renewal and rejuvenation in all nations. Some of those changes were material and sent us off in that direction.
As a new era of spirituality has arrived with the Aquarian Age (the Picean Age just ended was all about emotions) it is time to refocus some of this renewal and rejuvenation to spirituality. That could be a big part of the 2012 message as well.
God bless, J
I had read and was taught the Indigos had came in much, much later than that, but I had my doubts on it when I heard it because I fit the description too well and I was born in 1940. I definitely experience the gifts and had no idea what it was when I was a little girl. I knew who the spirits were but not why they were contacting me. I know now they connected with me because they knew I would share the word, "there is life after our death here on earth". We live on and the other side wants to connect with us. I will be happy when there are more of us that will connect with the other side. They are still our loved ones even if you can't always see them.
I agree with you, Matriarch, that women may have developed this voice to a greater degree. I fear, however, that we are also better at suppressing it when it tells us something we don't want to hear (which is what I replied to FayetteSIPP above, also).
What do you think?
Unfortunately it's true. We surpress our wildish nature, our instincts because of pressure from the outside.
i think we all have it, specially at times of fear. I am a very trusting person, my husband says that i am somewhat naive. The one that i remember the most is getting into an elevator with a whole bunch of kids... i had a kid that age, so i always told people they look worse than they are. But that day something told me, do not get in that elevator, do not! Wow, that was the best thing i ever did!
I rely on my intuitive senses a lot... but it's not only been the case. As a child I was told I was being silly or weird and to stop it. So, I did for a few years, but as I got older I still had these 'premonitions' that would occur. At times I would alert others, but not actually telling them what I really felt, I just disguised it as being overly cautious. Now that I'm older, I am experiencing them still, but in different ways...sometimes preceeded with a headache or 'goosebumps', etc. I went for a 'psychic' reading a few months ago and was told I had my own answers, I just had to listen to them. It's all quite interesting and I'm looking forward to 'fine tuning' this gift more. I found this discussion interesting.
Using meditation as a key to opening more in your psychic abilities would help you to understand yourself and others better. It begins with intuition because that is a recognizable sensitivity. The rest is added on.
God bless, J
The intuition we recognize coming from the gut is one of the places we are inclined to open without fuss. And yet, it is attached intrinsicly with the psychic abilities.
Using all your 5 senses - sight, sound, smell, taste, touch - tactile and emotional - add that intuition you understand and one more - I know that comes from the heart (your heart neither sees nor hears - it just knows). Now you have opened the psychic abilities that are inherent in all human beings.
You trust your gut reactions, now trust the rest of your senses and see your life unfold in immeasurable spirit joys.
God bless, J
Well put Spiritalk. I know there have been times when I didn't listen to my gut and it has caused a lot of suffering. Please don't discard what your senses have to say. Don't be afraid to listen. They will give you guidance and direction. If you feel there is a voice telling you to do something harmful you will know not to listen to that voice. That is not your guides talking.
I am sure that I had instances of premonitions before that day but I can say that I never thought about it until I was cruelly in the mist of it.
I had to fly to Vancouver one spring 25 years ago and since I had been living a seclude tranquil life for the prior three years I ignored all of my concerns that something bad was going to happen to me. I thought that I was just not up to travel in a fast pace world and feared it.
My intuition was screaming so loud that I had to take a Valium to dim it. That made it so much easier for the rapist.
Afterward I spent years analyzing my premonition and my effort to silence it.
I read many books on the subject and I gave myself permission to listen to the cautionary voice.
I listen now and I am alive to write this. One of the worst parts is being a passenger in a fast moving vehicle and get the driver to slow down NOW because there is an obstacle around the blind curve on the road. That happened twice, both times it involved animals, a moose right in our lane and the next time was a group of mountain goats.
Never mind surviving a fatal crash when less that a second to spare I had my husband refrain from passing as a roaring car decided to overtake us.
What about driving very slowly at three AM signaling to turn left in an utterly empty town to turn at a Motel and stopping, looking, when suddenly a runaway eight wheeler cut us off from our turn, we do drive long distances.
While on vacation I also had a dream of a white cat getting run over and I was so panicked about it that I had to phone home and find out if my Siamese cat was safe at our house. He was safe but that night during a violent Maritimes rainstorm while caught in a fast moving multiple lane of traffic we could not miss the cat running underneath our car.
I believe that we should close our scattered brain and just breathe and accept other possibilities. It is so very hard sometimes to triage emotions from the unseen reality.
For the last ten years I have been trying to understand what one part of my intuition was telling me.
Maybe one of you knows. This is a real situation and not a dream.
I was walking away from my friend in a large parking lot and I was answering her question. Out of the corner of my eye I recognized a man coming toward us but my mouth was talking and I could feel a bell like cavity resonating as my words were tumbling out.
My mind kept saying shut up but my words could not be stopped.
I knew that I was sealing my husband’s fate and that what I had just said (something very mundane about people living happily in different places that this one) I knew that this man ‘my husband new employer’ was going to fire him I knew it right at that moment and I felt that the resonance, that bell like sound, was destiny.
Have any of you experience that resonance before.
Wow, I think you have an amazing gift.
The experiences you describe are truly incredible. I haven't had the experience of 'resonance' that you speak of, but I did recently 'tune in' to my intuition and Genie Within! I made a video about it which is on my YouTube Channel if you would like to check it out! This is the URL: http://www.youtube.com/drkisane
Kisane
I have learned to trust my gut, almost always. My Virgo-analytical mind always wants to turn things every which way and examine them from every angle but in the end, I always go with what I call "my first mind". Whenever I have gone against that, it usually resulted in a wrong decision being made and I have regretted it.
I actually think that some of the stuff we call "intuition" is just plain ordinary paying attention. People give themselves away in a million different ways without knowing it; almost everyone has a 'tell'. The man who cheats has changed... something... his body language; his habits; the tone of his voice; the set of his brow... something that tips you off. That's not intuition; that's science! (^_^) I always say, "watch what people do; not what they say". Anyone can say anything, but they will most often DO what is really in their hearts; their actions give them away.
That doesn't mean I don't believe in a 'sixth sense', though. One day many years ago, I was sitting at my desk when the phone rang. We didn't have caller ID on our phones but when I picked it up, I said, "Hi, Ivette". I had absolutely no way of knowing it was her; she hadn't said she would call that day; I didn't even know if she was in that day because we worked on separate floors. After we hung up, I sat there stunned for a full five minutes. How did I know it was her? I still have no clue.
I absolutely trust my sixth sense. Years ago, I started keeping an "intuition journal", rating hunches, feelings, and premonitions from 1 to 10 in strength just to see what ones I could trust as actual intuition rather than free-floating anxiety or worry. turned out that anything 7 or over was almost guaranteed to happen. some 5's and 6's were accurate to a point. Under 5's were not really reliable.
Now I don't even question it any longer. And it has saved my bacon so many times!
Most of my premonitions come to me through dreams. When my first marriage failed, I was so heartbroken I could barely function. After that anytime I got involved with someone who wasn't right for me I had warning dreams. I had a dream about a bracelet that one man gave me that had our names on little tags joined together. The braclet broke between our names and fell off my wrist. Sure enough I soon found out what kind of man he really was! Another time I dreamed the man I was involved with was cheating on me with another woman, and the pearl ring he gave me crumbled. I saw the woman in this dream, and my brother said he saw them together and she looked exactly like I described her. If I was involved with someone I decided to break up with there would be no warning dream. Before I met my current husband a woman came to me in a dream and told me all about him. She had long blond hair and was wearing what looked like a white linen pant suit. My husband was exactly what she described! We have been married now for almost 22 years. I wonder if she was my spirit guide? I have gotten warning dreams for other types of situations too. I also had a gut feeling about winning lottery numbers, but didn't play. I sure wish I had, I would have won some cash! I was at work and a silly tune from the 60's kept playing in my head. I don't really like the song, it was the one that goes 3 6 9 the goose drank wine, all day long I kept thinking about it and on my way home I thought why not buy a pick 3 lottery ticket, but didn't and sure enough the winning numbers were 369!
im not sure what the policy around here is on putting up links, but this place will have you listening to your intuition (among other things) in no time, and the introductory class (which lasts 2 months) is FREE --you should really check us out if you want to learn more about recognising your intuition and a few other things you may not realize you should pay attention to. http://www.elfpath.com/forum/home.php (elf--stands for easy-lucky-fun)
Thanks, kattzyze. Based on your comment, I checked out the elfpath website and have just signed up for their introductory course. I'm excited (yet skeptical) and open to see what happens!
oh! Thanks for joining, i do think you will be glad you did! ^^ And i invite anyone else reading this to check us out, as well. You can start off skeptical--most everyone who joined us has, at first, been skeptical--but soon came to realize how helpful what we teach has been to their lives.
Thanks, sounds interesting, I'll take a look!
Just reading all the information on our homepage should give you a very clear idea who we are and what we offer. I have been involved with Elfpath nearly a year now. Rohaa, our master-teacher, is a lovely woman who cares very deeply about the welfare of her students. In fact one of the things that sets us apart from most other sites is the fact that there is always someone around to help you and talk to you; we offer very personalized instruction.
I think our dreams are personal and powerful, brimming with notions that can heal our pain. If your dreams give you information about your waking life, you are very blessed.
I had a dream that my deceased uncle told me that my dad was in for some trouble. Dad had already had a stroke that left him unable to talk and partially paralyzed, so I didn't tell my mom about it. I told my sister & brother about the dream and to keep and eye on dad. I live 450 miles away so it would be hard for me to do this. A while after that my mom called me to tell me dad had prostate cancer.Then while they were at the clinic filling out an insurance claim for the treatments, he had a heart attack and had to have a quadrupal bypass! He finally came home from the hospital, then fell and fractured bones in his face. I still haven't told mom about the dream, although she has also dreamed about my deceased uncle (her brother) and said he gave her a hug.
I, absolutely listen to my "sixth sence", my "gut feeling", my "little voice".....
Whatever we want to call it, I appreciate that many women have given it a name of somekind. It is a true 'sence' of what will or will not, should be or should not be. I listen to it, and it is ALMOST ALWAYS the correct choice.
Be true to yourself? Listen to your "sixth sence".
Yes, I believe we do have a "sixth sense." Mine, however, seems to function only for unfortunate situations. Mn my mom had a stroke 25 years ago, on a Friday night. She seemed fine in the hospital, and was expected to make a quick recovery and be able to go home in a few days. The next morning, I had the feeling that something was terribly wrong, and I rushed to the hospital. (I hadn't planned to visit her till several hours later, when visiting hours began.) She was sitting in her bed babbling gibberish. She'd had another, major stroke, and no one had bothered to call me! She died one month later.
When my daughter was three, we had a sitter who came to our home. The sitter would occasionally take my daughter shopping, or to visit her mother (with my permission; I totally trusted this woman). One day, I came home from work to find my daughter and the sitter gone. Normally, this wouldn't have raised an alarm, but for some reason, on this day I felt something was terribly wrong. I got a call from the hospital a few minutes later, saying my daughter had fallen down a flight of stairs at the sitter's mother's house, and was in the hospital with a concussion and needing stitches.
A few years later, with a different sitter that I also trusted...something told me to have my husband stop by the house a few hours earlier than we were scheduled to return home. The beer bottles in the yard were the tipoff. Our trusted sitter was in the middle of a party at our house, with our 5 year old daughter roaming around the back yard, in the dark, all alone and crying!
Finally, about 9 years ago, when I was dating the man who would become my husband... I was on my way to his house early one morning, feeling excited and distracted at the possibility of seeing him again. My mind was clearly not on my driving, but suddenly I heard this inner voice say "stop - now!" I had just entered an intersection that seemed to be clear, when all of a sudden a car came speeding in front of me. Had I not listened to my inner voice and stopped when it telled me to, I would have been involved in a serious accident!
I love this thread; it reminds all of us to listen to the subtle "voices" or reminders we receive. In the book "The Alchemist," which I am currently reading....there's a line that says something like...and please don't quote me....." intuition is the soul dipping into the flow of Universal energy." Explained this way, I am reminded to invite that flow of Universal energy into my life....it's an exercise in mindfulness and very helpful, just as our intuition is! Listen!!!
Interesting that you see it as the negative things of life. My mom was like that - her intuition would kick in like a panic attack when she was getting something that affected a family member. But what is negative and what is positive? I have to tell a story to see what I mean......
My mom had one of her panic attacks as they were packing the car for a camping trip. She just didn't want to go.
They were only to drive a few miles north and the older 3, who had stayed home because of work, were to go up on the weekend. They ended up 100s of miles from home (18 hours drive) north and across the border into the US.
While pitching the tent dad suffered some chest pains. They took him to the local hospital (it was called The Travellers Hopsital) where he was warned to drive straight home, non stop, or to spend the night in the hospital. Because of the warning, they chose to put him in hospital over night.
He had a massive heart attack during the night from which he survived. He had to remain perfectly still for over 6 weeks to allow the heart to mend.
Now lets consider if he had driven home, or for that matter they had never gone on the trip. Dad would have suffered the attack at home and been dead before they could get help. We had my father for 16 more years because of that camping trip my mother did not want to take.
I will add that she went through a lot of extra expense and discomfort because of his stay in this little town in Northern Michigan. But it did save his life.
God bless, J
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