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Life holds unlimited possibilities if you step outside your comfort zone and allow yourself to have a new experience.

Life is too short not to have a spirit of adventure. Some lucky folks will have the opportunity to travel the world, drinking in the new sights, sounds and experiences like a person with unquenchable thirst. They'll share their adventures with family and friends, allowing them to live vicariously through their stories.

Others may never have the chance to see much outside their own little part of the world, yet will share stories of adventures that those who traveled the same highway somehow missed. How can this be?

It's all how you look at life that makes the difference.

Each day many of us wake up and repeat much of what we did the day before. We may change our clothes, eat different food, face different challenges but basically we're creatures of habit. We get into our routines, some of it dictated by the demands of work, school and/or raising a family. We get restless and wonder if there's more to life.

Here's where the adventure part kicks in. Life holds unlimited possibilities if you step outside your comfort zone and allow yourself to have a new experience. It can be as simple as getting off the highway and taking those slow moving back roads just to see the sights even if it take an extra 20 minutes to get where you're going. Or not being apprehensive about walking up to a stranger and starting up a conversation or taking yourself out for a good time. The point is, you have to make life happen for you ...If you sit around complaining how nothing exciting ever happens, then it never will!

You know the saying, "There's a whole world out there to explore!" I've always interpreted that to mean there's a whole world right outside your door! Don't be afraid to open it and walk down a new path!

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anir said to Debi Drecksler
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Hi Debi,

I agree.  My spirit of adventure is within myself.  I find it is something that is hard to share with other people.  They sometimes get it but most times don't.  Which is O.K.

People can relate when I recount stories from my travels, which are limited but are expanding.  Other times, they find it odd the way I feel about everyday occurances.   Take the weather.  Nothing you can do about it right?  So when I meet someone who says 'Bad weather we're having'.  They are usually surprised that I don't agree with them.  I find all kinds of reasons why the weather is fine as it is.  Raining buckets, it just makes us appreciate the sunny days more, scorching hot, we'd be complaining if it were raining. 

You don't have to travel to make adventures out of everyday life where you are when you are in it.

anir

Debi Drecksler said to anir
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I LOVE your attitude about life! Thanks for sharing!

Maid Marion said to Debi Drecksler
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We can't live in a bubble.  Get out there gals and do something for yourself today!

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Debi Drecksler said to Maid Marion
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I agree!

Maid Marion said to Maid Marion
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some of my friends are so afraid of everything.  they think i am nuts riding my motorcycle,  but you can get killed in a car or a plane just as easily.  if you don't have fun at something then what else is there?  work work work work.  don't get me wrong.  i am conservative and not a big risk taker, but you have to find your "spirit of adventure" or you just are not living life.  "all work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy."

i love your suggestion about taking a different way home.  done that many times.  discovered beautiful country roads as a result.  who wants to stay on the main highway all of the time?  BORING!

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Debi Drecksler said to Maid Marion
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If my husband ever gets a motorcycle again (he had one as a single guy "BD"...Before Debi), I already told him that I want to ride behind him as his motorcycle babe!! Oh yeah!!!!!!

Maid Marion said to Debi Drecksler
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Yeah!!  My husband has a Harley too, so I ride on back when I want to enjoy the surroundings and not have to concentrate on the road...or when I want to drink a little!  :-)

It is a nice pastime for couples.

3bchkids said to Debi Drecksler
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I am 56 years old and have lived in my comfort zone in my marriage of 29 years, my job and a lot of my life.

My husband has decided that he is not happy and we are undergoing a trial separation.  This is forcing me to take a look at myself.  Scary really.  BUT since I have been on unemployemnt for 4 months, I have taken zumba, yoga and pilates classes, applied for mulitiple jobs (not really a good time for successful results), and taken a class so think about teaching. I raised three children (now between the ages of 20 and 26).  So I have gone outside the box and am leaving this week for a trip to Madrid with my 23 year old daughter.  I am taking my kindle and a journal.  So hopefully I will try a new path and enjoy it!  It is scary for me.  I've never been to Europe and don't know another language...but that will be fine.  Art wine architecture and new sites and sounds.  Keep your fingers crossed for me.  It is a pretty unstructured trip except for a few singing engagements, my daughter is singing the only solo.   But I want to feel alive again.  This will be worth a little extra debt$$.   Marty

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Debi Drecksler said to 3bchkids
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Have a marvelous time! Can't wait to hear all about it when you return!

lavenda said to 3bchkids
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Would love to hear about Madrid!

anrtist said to Debi Drecksler
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Divorced 5 years ago after 43 year marriage. Getting back on my feet has been tough, but am learning the good parts of being alone. I bought a kayak 2 years ago and got on rivers & lakes for the first time. I toured the northwest states last year taking my daughter's family along. This summer, I'm  working in Yellowstone National Park and will be there 5 months! Lots of women have expressed amazement that I am doing this alone, but why not! I'm excited and looking forward to my adventure. I plan to live "out loud" until I die.

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Debi Drecksler said to anrtist
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Sounds like you are enjoying life to the fullest! Enjoy every delicious moment!

nurseniel said to Debi Drecksler
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yeah, life is an adventure all right...I have days go by when my only sound of a human voice is from the television...I used to be very outgoing-now after years of being beat down, I'm very gunshy-it doesn't help that I have issues with my muscles...I live with pain constsntly-it is a matter of degree each day.

I laugh-I was the one with the adventurous spirit and wanted to travel the world-it's more the world just blew past me. Know what's out there to explore? Reminders that for most of my adult life I have been alone, forgive me, but that 'zest, the dreams once had, the hopes...they're long gone...

When I was a little girl, I always prayed every night that God would allow my parents to get me a pony,(I know, what an original dream, a little girl wanting a pony...go figure!) I never did get that pony...I grew up, went to school, had a career, got married, got divorced. I had prayed for a full life, family,friends,husband children and guess what? It was just horses of different colors.

 

Alicia said to nurseniel
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I've been living out loud ..forever; I began the adventure when I joined the army right out of high school....from a little town in Maine (totally naive and innocent) to San Francisco, at the height of the Vietnam war, Summer-of-Love, hippies, demonstrations, drugs, etc. etc.......I keep having adventures; borrowing money from my retirement to go to the past 3 conferences (American Counseling Association) in Hawaii, Pittsburgh, Charlotte, NC......next year, New Orleans!

 

Written my memoir and a poetry book, Sanctuary of the Soul; moderator of an abused survivors' group, been on the radio 2 times and will soon be on NPR speaking about verbal abuse (so rarely recognized no understood), published 3 times in a University journal, won a scholarship at age 61, because of what I wrote about my life.........taking Biology this Fall semester.....never had it......I don''t know WHY i like challenging myself so much! 

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