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In this month's InStyle magazine, there was a beauty feature with "10 Ways to Look 5 Years Younger." Wonder if I follow these tips if I will look like I'm 46 instead of 51?

I'm always eager to learn ways to look younger. That's why I was keenly interested in the beauty feature in this month's InStyle magazine on "10 Ways to Look 5 Years Younger." So, what did the 10 beauty tips say? And if I follow them, will I look like I'm 46 instead of 51?

1. Brighten Up with Concealer - According to the makeup artist Mally Roncal, who is quoted in the story, if you use concealer "People will start asking who your surgeon was." (Yes, I do use concealer under my eyes every day. However, no one has ever asked me who my surgeon was...which is good because I don't have one.)

2. Be Careful With Color - By color, they mean hair color. According to New York colorist Louis Licari, who is quoted in the story, "If you over-highlight your blond hair, you lose the golden tones that keep it looking youthful and pretty. And hair that is dyed too dark is unnatural." (I am careful with my hair color. I have a fabulous colorist who puts just the right amount of highlights in my hair and doesn't dye my hair too dark either. Ah, glad I am complying with Lou's suggestions.I agree with you Lou. I do. I do.)

3. Perk Up A Saggy Butt - This tip says that 'our bottoms tend to be less buoyant as we age...gravity pulls them down.' Susie Crippen of J Brand, says to "check the label of every pair of jeans before buying to make sure they have at least 2 percent stretch, like Lycra. Pants with more than 98 percent cotton can stretch out as soon as you wear them." (Wait, J Brand is the brand of jeans that my daughter A raves about. I should listen to Susie, she must be smart when it comes to perking up saggy butts. I do love my Not Your Daughter's Jeans which also perk up my butt.)

4. Shine On - This tip says that years of blow-drying and styling our hair can leave it lackluster...that adding conditioning gloss or a shine serum can help hair sparkle. (I'll have to try the conditioning gloss. As for the shine serum, I already have that product in my repertoire of haircare products and it seems to weigh my hair down rather than sparkle it up.)

5. Find the Perfect Bra - According to New York stylist Annabel Tollman, "A good bra elevates your chest to a higher altitude, giving you a longer, slimmer-looking waist." (Hmm, hmm, maybe I will have to listen to Annabel and go to Victoria's Secret and buy one of those new Miraculous bras.)

6. Give Some Lip Service - This tip says that our lips lose volume as we get older and that dark matte lipsticks accentuate our aging lips. It says to switch to pink gloss to look younger. (Okay, after I go to Victoria's Secret to get my new perfect bra, I'm going to go to MAC and buy some 'pink gloss' for my lips.)

7. Fake An Eye Lift - Ooh, ooh, I think I am practicing this tip already. Yes, I am. I put my eye makeup on just like the tip that N.Y.C. makeup artist Paula Dorf says. Sorry Paula, I learned this tip from the MAC makeup lady when she did my colors several years ago. I think it was when I was 5 years younger and I'm still practicing this tip. I do 'use a light-colored shadow near my lash line and a deeper shade in an arc above the crease where my lid is dropping.'

8. Get A Little Cheeky - The Beverly Hills plastic surgeon Gabriel Chiu says that "as we age the fat pads in our cheeks fall" and that to defy nature you can either get a filler or you can use a bright pink blush, which illuminates the cheekbone and draws the eye upward." (No fillers for me. I'm not putting any fillers in my cheekbones. And I've tried bright pink blush once before and it doesn't look good on my cheeks. Guess I won't be practicing this tip. I wonder, if each tip is worth .5 years and I practice all the other nine tips, will I look 4.5 years younger? You think?)

9. Lose the Powder Makeup - Paula Dorf says that "As you get older and your skin produces less oil, dewy makeup is more flattering." (No wonder why the makeup artist at Bobbie Brown recommended that I start using an oil based foundation when I had my 50th birthday makeover. It's been almost two years since I had my 50th birthday makeover and I've been practicing this tip ever since.)

10. Mix Things Up - This final tip says to "always throw in something unexpected, like messy hair, a casual jacket, or flats with a fancy dress." (I can do messy hair, I have several casual jackets in my closet. I don't like flats with a fancy dress, they tend to make my pear-shaped body look more hippy. Personally, I like pumps with a fancy dress or a sandal.)

My yoga teacher N, also had a few yogi cures for aging that she shared with us during tonight's yoga class:

Yogi cure #1 - The first yogi cure for aging is to do a 10 minute inversion every day. An inversion can be a head stand, or a hand stand, or the dead bug pose (which is my favorite. I look like an upside down dead cockroach when I do this pose.)

Yogi cure #2 - Massage your face outward every night. Start at the top or bottom of your face and stimulate your skin and then put your moisturizer on your face. Stretch out your neck too by pulling your face forward. (This will add an extra step to my evening skincare ritual, but I'll try it if it will help me stay forever young.)

If I can find 10 more beauty tips to help me look younger, I wonder if I can look 10 years younger? Wait a minute...wait a minute. How does the chorus in the "Forever Young" song go? Think I need to stop, breathe, and sing...

Forever young,
I wanna be forever young
Do you really want to live forever?
Forever and ever
Forever young I wanna be
Forever young
Do you really want to live forever?
Forever, forever



Judi

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Dianna said to Judi50+
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I think these tips are wonderful and whole some thoughts towards which we can strive. Anything that continues to give women the feeling that we can still be attractive and thus retain our dignity and self esteem , is truly a gift .We all need hope.

But, I have a question?

What actually IS the difference between the look of a 51 year old and a 46 year old???

 

Holleyhock said to Dianna
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5 years - ???

grammy 2 4 said to Holleyhock
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hahahahahahahah.....lol.....hahahahahah!!!!!!   Oh what 5 years can do!;)

MirrorWoman said to Judi50+
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Don't forget your teeth! Crest Whitestrips! Huge difference - especially when you're beyond 51!

Holleyhock said to MirrorWoman
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I am seriously going to try this. I haven't yet, but I'm going to buy some of these this week. Thanks for the tip!

Holleyhock said to Judi50+
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My hairdresser said the easiest way to get a facelift is to cut your hair shorter. I let her cut my hair and I got all kinds of compliments with my new short hair style.

DeniseAnne said to Judi50+
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Judi:  This was a delightful article.  However, I do suggest you change your hairstyle.  It is very old fashioned and you would look younger if you asked your hairdresser to bring you more up to date!

DeniseAnne

JoJami said to Judi50+
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Great tips! Now that you can look 5 years younger with these wonderful ideas...take the next step and make sure your dressing 5 years younger!

Cheers!

The Glam Gas

Go to www.fabulousafter40.com for more tips on how to dress 10 pounds thinner as well!

JoJami said to JoJami
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OOPS...LOL.... we are NOT full of hot air, I can assure you.

We are the Glam Gals, not the Glam Gas...

Nunzi said to JoJami
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Not to burst the positive bubble BUT....those things worked for me when I was in my early and mid 50's.  It's a whole different story now that I'm 59.  So much has changed from the time I was 53 to 59.  I don't even LOOK the same!

Judi50+ said to Judi50+
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Thanks all for your comments.  Some replies:

- as for the age difference between 46 and 51, I definitely notice more dryness and more wrinkles and my neck is starting to get wrinkles.

- whoever recommended a different hairstyle - let me know what you suggest.  I always get my hair highlighted and I do keep it short, since every time I've tried to grow it longer, it gets heavy and loses even more body.

- I do agree teeth are important.  Check out my blog post on my 'teeth whitening experience with Zoom.'

- to the Glam Girls, I will check out your fashion tips for looking younger.  I still love my 'Not Your Daughter's Jeans.'  I wore my jeans to work today and someone admired them.  I should be a promoter for these jeans.  They do make my middle look thinner and they are so comfortable to wear.

buzzingbee said to Judi50+
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Had a reverse problem when I hit 61, my skin got dislexic, thinks it's 16 and is oily and breaking out!!!  Something I never expected at this age.  And not the young look that I wanted!  Hope it is coming from eating the sweets at my birthday celebrations (don't normally eat much sweets) and will go away soon.  Otherwise I may be going through  puberty next.

grammy 2 4 said to Judi50+
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On the hair...a tad more length will add oodles or feminity to your face.  Nice facial structure, play up the high cheek bones.  Maybe even a shade lighter on the hair, I need to also, I have olive complexion and brown eyes...mousy brouwn hair....muddy head....really....maybe try thining out your eyebrows...geeze...you'll look like you spent a million bucks and no on will know you can do all of this for under $100.  OTC....gotta love it.  Also find Aveno skin brightning wask.  Soft small microbeeds with soy protiens....unbelievealbe difference in tone and texture. and cheap at any grocery store.  taks away the need for concealer and gives a much younger glow without foundation makeup and just a hint of blush mascara and a hint of lip gloss....as my grandson calls me the hottest hippist grammy of any one, even better than some of their moms....I'm 57, I love being 57, maybe that has something todo with it to.  My hair is too long but I'm holding on to things just now, I'm sure I'll find the appropriate time to let it go too.  !Oops! pills taking hold for undesterbed 2 hours of sleep.Have fun experiementing.

CynAva said to Judi50+
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Couple of more you might want to try... Stop wearing BLACK eyeliner around the entire eye. That's okay on your 25 year old daughter, but your make up has to grow up with you. For dramatic eyes  I do use black, I never go further than the iris, both upper an lower. Lining the entire eye closes the eye. For a day to day look try something softer like brown eyeliner. Wearing too much make up makes you just look like your wearing too much make up. 

For hair that's too dried out , don't use shampoo every time you shower. I use conditioner only every other shower. It's softer than it's been in years.

grammy 2 4 said to CynAva
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I have waist long hair.  I do dye it but it is in really good condition and I think it is because I've never had to wash it more than twice a week, now only once.  I rinse it out with every shower and I use a spray and leave conditioner.  I use an in the shower conditioner on wash days then just the spray in the other 6 days. 

I don't use anything to make it shine, it does that on it's own. and Yes, I agree long hair can make us look older but when I want a different, more sophisticated look....up sweep, half up, half down, pony tail.  I have a very thin face, high cheek bones and thankfully, no sagging skin. 

I do have a problem finding appropriate clothing my size so that is a hurdle I need to jump when ever somthing is coming up that I need to find an appropriate outfit for.  Not easy to find when 00's are too big.  Trust me....a curse.  My alterations lady is on speed dial.

Things that work for me?  Nothing too short (just at the knee, shorts, skirts skorts...at the knee), nothing that too much cleavage shows....square neck and princess necklines work best for me but I do love my turtle necks.  MUST have some spandex in jeans.  And love Victoria Secrets jeans that hold up our sagging hinneys.....really nice styles too, you name she's got it from straight leg to boot let from flap pockets to no pockets...and THEY DO fit me.  Most of my clothes are bought at VS and I am concerned that some are too young or too risky. 

I've shopped most of the petite shops like Anne Taylor but her styles are sometimes TOO old for this 57 year old and I find that her price points are not in line with the quality....more price than quality...not everything but have to be very careful.

I have a lot of clothes for right now but I don't have nice structure pieces any longer....they went with the job and the weight.  Don't know where to find them now....maybe good....couldn't afford them now anyway.

Nettie said to Judi50+
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Wow.....the hair, make-up and clothing thing really works!  Speaking of make-up....I tried the brand that Ellen Degeneris uses....what a difference!  My hair is a silvery white and using the right products to make it shiny is working for me.  I'm 72 and working PT in local government along with a younger crowd and loving it.

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