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• To all those Vibrant Women who have, like me, left abusive relationships - whether verbal, emotional, psychological, spiritual, physical, financial, social...or all of the above! - I say congratulations to us! When I read this post, I think to mys
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• "Wherever I go - there I am."  - Love it!
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• The advice you were given above is very wise. These are women who have been there...which should give you reason to think seriously about taking the steps needed to get away. Why do you keep threatening to leave?  Perhaps you are thinking he will
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• HI, Annamarie, Thanks for joining in. Whether co-renting or co-owning, getting a compatible mix of people, and ensuring financial and personal security, are certainly number one. There are so many intentional community and shared housing models o
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• Thanks again, Janice. Really appreciate your thoughts. I am hoping that a non-invasive procedure like fillers will do the trick for my eye bags.  I am not looking at facelifts or anything that requires surgery. Rest of me is beginning to show sig
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