A little history first. Husband died 6 years ago after being married for 28 years. Met him when I was 16.
Fast forward. Met man three years later, dated for over two years. He kept saying he would move-in but kept making excuses. He finally did but once he did I found out he was a daily pot smoker and an alcoholic. He also lied on several occasions and did nothing around the house. Needless to say we broke up and he moved out after about 10 months.
I sometimes feel I am to blame because I should have just ignored some of the stuff he did. Was I wrong to want him out of my life?