I cancelled my online dating site subscriptions…I was on two. Here is what I have determined.
I am not happy with myself. I am not in a good place…coming off of an antidepressant, need to lose 35 pounds, need to get my finances in order, need to work seriously on a book I have started. How would I squeeze a man into that? And would it be fair to someone to start a relationship if I am not in a good place? The answers are…I can’t fit anyone in and I won’t be unfair to someone.
I panicked when I divorced, I panicked when I turned 56…and panic is not a good place to be when looking for love. The temptation would be to find someone who can solve my problems, and that is exactly the kind of thinking that has gotten me into bad relationships to start with. Just sign me…Crazy in Alabama