Sex educators and talk show hosts Dan and Jennifer have news for you: There’s so much more to sex than missionary position! If you’re interested in adding vibrator use to your bedroom repertoire, you might need their advice for overcoming your fears of vibrator use as a couple.
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Don’t let fear stop you from sharing your fantasies with your partner. While it can be scary to introduce sex toys in the bedroom, these tips from an askdanandjennifer.com video may help you go from boring to sizzling!
Same old, same old?
First off, face the fact: If you do the same thing every night, it’s gonna get boring. Plus, as our bodies change, it may take more stimulation to get us to orgasm. That’s where vibrator use and female masturbation come into play.
Vibrator use can be an embarrassing subject to discuss, and it’s vital to make your partner comfortable with vibrator use during sex or nobody’s going to have a good time.
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It’s okay to have sex
Jennifer advises that you first get comfortable with your own body and the whole idea of sex.
“It’s okay, you’re a sexual being!” she explained. “Your body is there to have sex.”
Start alone, then add your partner
Jennifer suggested that you spend some time alone, get some books, surf the internet and experiment with yourself sexually.
“Don’t start with him, start with yourself,” she said. “Try some toys when you’re alone. Really explore [your fantasies] and think about what you like and what you find exciting. If you’re not into masturbation, it’s time to start! Understand what gets you excited, what you like, what gets you excited. And then you can share those things with him.”
Go slow
Because vibrator use and sex toys can be very intimidating to some people, it’s especially important to go slow and introduce things one at a time. Start by talking about what you might like to do, share some of your fantasies, listen to his fantasies, and then “agree to try some things with him, very slowly, very gently,” the pair advised.
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Take it to the next level
Once you’re comfortable with vibrator use and sex toys in the bedroom, you can move on to an “advanced tactic” that Dan and Jennifer use: The Fantasy Box.
“We write down–whenever we think of something really hot and exciting–we write it down in great detail, exactly how things need to play out. It’s almost like a little script and we put it in a box. Every once in a while, when we’re looking to try something new, we pull one of those out.”
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