Female masturbation: How to have better orgasms with vibrator use

The quest for big, better, and more mind-blowing orgasms is never ending. Luckily, it’s a fun chase!

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Many couples use sex toys alone and together, allowing them to tap into creative sex and the pleasures they bring. In the Vibrant Nation Health Guide, A Woman’s Guide to Great Sex After 50: Getting Your Mind, Body and Relationship Ready for Pleasure, Dr. Pepper Schwartz explains:

“A lot of touching and using toys not only stokes up erotic desire, it also gets everyone excited without having a male partner have to last forever during intercourse. For one thing, as we age, our knees, backs, hips, and pelvis need a little relief, or sex will be more painful than pleasing.”

At our age, we often need more time and more intense stimulation, as well. That’s when vibrator use can provide a bit of help during female masturbation.

Blogger TessDanesi has some tips for multiplying your orgasms during vibrator use:

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  • Fantasize – Most women need more arousal time and more time to reach orgasm, whether during female masturbation or sex with a partner. While your sexual organs are the place where sex happens, never forget that for many women the number one pleasure spot in their body is located in their brain. If you’re not feeling particularly creative, check out these 10 fantasies to jump start your sexy thoughts.
  • Read erotica – Again, you’ve got to get in the right frame of mind if you want a mind-blowing orgasm during vibrator use. Often, erotica can open your mind to new fantasies you’d never be able to dream up on your own. If you’re not sure where to find good erotica, here are some suggested erotica titles from the members of Vibrant Nation to help get your body in the mood with erotic fiction.
  • Try some nipple clips – If you like nipple stimulation, don’t be afraid to try some nipple clips. There are adjustable ones available that convert from light to heavy pressure as well as ones that vibrate.
  • Vibrator use – The number and variety of vibrators is staggering. Lucky us! The trick is to try several and find one that works for you. A variety of speeds, styles, shapes and sizes make the shopping fun. You can find expert information about the best vibrators for women and vibrator reviews written from a mature woman’s perspective in Vibrant Nation’s special report, Toys for Grown Women: Product reviews, sexual health benefits, tips for new users, where to shop, and how to choose the best sex toys after 50.
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  • Dildo use – If you’re ready to up the ante, you might try a dildo in addition to clitoral stimulation through vibrator use. Rabbit style vibes, vibes that provide simultaneous internal and clitoral stimulation, can be difficult for some to use, depending on their body shape and size. You can, however add a dildo to your vibrator use. It may require two hands, but it may also be worth the effort.
  • Use a butt plug – TessDanesi explains, “So your head’s in the right place, you’re merrily buzzing along feeling those amazing sensations in and around you clitoris, you have a dildo inside that you can contract your muscles around bringing you closer and closer — what else could you do to make this even better? Well, here’s where I like to go for the trifecta and make use of a butt plug.” A variety of butt plugs in varying sizes and shapes are available.
  • Relax and take your time – You’ll want to be sure that you have plenty of time when you’re going to try for a mind-blowing orgasm through vibrator use. As TessDanesi says, “Using sex toys is one way to take your orgasms from great to un-freaking-believable. Take your time, give these techniques a go when you’re not rushed and can really relax into the sensations, try adding one toy at a time, and remember you can try these with a partner too.”
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