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tried this (as well as the Garnier tinted moisture) in vacation last week ... Liked the Garnier better, but this provides more coverage and does indeed stay on through everything ... not heavy or greasy ... covers my rosacea. Not sure it will be my eMy parents divorced when I was ten and I always felt like my lack of self esteem most have something to do with my Dad's absence but then one day when I was in my firths my mother said or did something that made me realize she was emotionally abusive
Holy crap! What a sad story. Congrats on overcoming that hurdle. Wow.
How I would handle it. FIrst, I would get into therapy; that could go a long way to helping you and your difficulties.
Second (boundaries are necessary in life)..when your kids call for advice, I would FIRST ask them what their thoughts are anI totally agree. My campanion or shall I say "boyfriend, lol go dancing at least 3 times a week. Dancing makes us feel young and it's great excercise.
Reread your prior post on infidelity. Don’t give up! There is a solution out there for you! Call out to us again. Give us an update. I am sure people would respond if you added some info.
Where are you now, what are you going through, did you hire a lawyer? If money is a stumbling block to you hiring one, maybe someone out there can help you. Had to give mine a small retainer to mine and she will be billing me at the end of the settlement, I don’t know how it works in the states.
Hope to hear from you soon. Hang in there.
anir
I made the mistake of typing in infidelity in the search field, thinking that I would find other areas that were associated with the act but instead,it created another field site. Thank you for responding. I am trying to take each day, sometimes each hr by hr. He’s nice one day or pretends to care; then gone the next; continuing to try to find ways to get me to react I guess and give in like I have for the last 17 years. My friends and therapist tell me that the fear of the future has got to be better than the misery and pain I am in now. I believe I have finally given up the hope that he will pay for the attorney. Still no progress – going on almost a month on the 12th of receiving the letter of intent.
Dear cf63,
Often times people who surround us have a better understanding of what is good for us than we do. But it is you who has to decide to act on their suggestions or not.
What do you want?
Are you hurting? Do you want to stay in the situation you are now? Is this what you want for the rest of your life? Can something positive come out of staying with this man? What would happen if you left? There are always pros and cons of staying or ending a relationship. YOU have to decide by yourself what YOU want to do. No one can decide for you.
You seem to have good friends and a therepist is always handy. I am sure that whatever you decide they will help you through it. You will also find a lot of women out here who have been there and done that.
Support is there for the asking! Vibrant women are out there!
I will be following your post. Let us know how you are doing.
anir