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  1. llacey2001 llacey2001 says

    Get your husband to see his Dr. ASAP…It could be prostate cancer, enlarged prostate, or just a reaction to a new medication or buildup of a med he has been on for quite some time. Whatever it is there is a very good reason why he is going through this. Please whatever you do, don’t take this as something about you or his attraction to you.

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  2. Tamara Tamara says

    Yep, this sounds like the help of a medical professional is needed!

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  3. dynamomma dynamomma says

    Men are so funny.  He probably doesn’t even want to talk about not being able to achieve an erection, right? They don’t like to admit that they can’t hear very well, or their snoring is actually hurting them (in addition to being ssoooo annoying), or their pot belly really is because they eat too much sugar (or drink too much beer), or their knees hurt more because they’re 30-50 pounds overweight.  The worse part is they know all this, but do you think they’d go to the doctor?  Inability to achieve an erection can be lots of physical reasons, but it can also have a psychological basis.  A complete physical is the absolute first order of business.  If you can’t get him to go to the doctor, then buy a dildo and lay it on your night stand in clear view (lpl).

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  4. llacey2001 llacey2001 says

    Oh yes, my husband just reminded me of something his DR told him…to become erect there needs to be blood flow going to the penis… (I know we already knew this) but if the arteries going there are plugged or lessened then others in the body might also be including the heart, an early sign of plugged up plumbing.

     

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  5. Generic Image smilesngiggles says

    Rosalinda, Viagra does work.  Your husband can use it if he doesent have a heart problem.  My husband tried it but he can’t take it due to heart problems.  It causes and unsafe drop in  blood pressure.  That is why heart patients cant’t take it. 

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    • Generic Image rover says

      if he doesn’t fix it you can’t, my 30 yr marriage is in trouble i settled and let it go for to long! now we are in seperate bedrooms,still living apart together! I nagged,cried and begged for years finally he  refuses to discuss sex. don’t wait get out now!

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      • Generic Image pdiddy says

        same problem here. If he has no desire what do you do?

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      • Generic Image rover says

        feel trapped,stay for security.or find a lover? who would have thought such loving relationships could end this way? just take it one day at a time pray for him to change! he won’t but you will change,

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  6. Generic Image pmc says

    Best check with his DR. That is often a part of a health probiblem.

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