I am a 34 year woman who is recently engaged to be married. I have never been “In-Love” with my fiance but really appreciate many of his qualities. My issue is that my fiance is an Alpha male and I am not used to being with a man that is as stern and overly opinionated as he is. We constantly debate over small issues which has been very draining. During the course of our year and a half courtship I have been struggling with his strong dominant personality. To make matters worse I started reminiscing on the spark filled relationship that I had with my ex and miss how easy it was for us to communicate with each other. My ex has reached out to me and has apologized for giving up on our relationship and now claims to want to rekindle our relationship. I am confused because I have a deep connection with my ex but have put my life on hold for him and was given false promises in the past. My ex who lives in Atlanta told me for two years that he was moving to be with me in Houston and never did. On top of that, I have found out that he is in a relationship. He claims that his relationship is not working out because she doesn’t compare to me. I want to learn to love my fiance and appreciate the fact that he is loyal, committed, loves me unconditionally yet has some flaws with communicating. I don’t want to call of the wedding thinking that my ex is the one for me and miss out on being with a descent guy who I may learn to love…My biological clock is ticking and I feel as if I need to make some serious decisions…Can someone please give me some insight? Can I learn to love and open my heart to my fiance?