Okay. I dipped my toe back into the online data pool after a couple of bad experiences. One guy who I met for drinks asked me after we had ordered our second drink…”do you have on panties?” this was after another guy asked me to NOT wear panties if we met. My profile in no way indicates that I would be open to those suggestions on a first date…or anytime after.
So. I took my profile down. I was shellshocked. After a couple of weeks I figured I might try again. There was a guy who I had completely discounted before because he just isn’t handsome. Not ugly, you understand…just not great looking. Well, he emailed me and he is a wonderful writer, out there with his feelings and thoughts, and just an interesting guy.
So…what is the problem? Well…he is liberal and I am more middle of the road. He will not define his spirituality, and I have a deep faith in God. I am white collar…he is not, but he loves what he does. He makes me laugh and he insists that I be authentic and truthful. He refuses to allow me to say anything at all that indicates I have been a failure at relationships. I told him I don’t want anybody to build their universe around me…he says he wants to worship his partner. And I believe this guy. On the surface, we do NOT match. But on the surface my two husbands and I DID. So? What do you think? I need my gals to help me out. And…my family would be completely surprised at this choice. My daughter asked me had I lost my mind…but I reminded her that I always have been supportive of her. So?