First of all…thank you water music and Tree for missing me! It has been a very interesting few weeks.
I am still seeing the guy I met on Match, and on paper it still doesn’t make sense. At all. But I decided to keep an open mind while closely…very closely…guarding my heart. After all, my goal for the past 18 months is to find myself and never let myself go regardless of whether or not I found a partner.
Of course it is still early days, but I am really enjoying getting to know this man. He is a study that’s for sure. He is very masculine which suits me to a t…but he cooks for me, makes the best Bloody Mary I have ever had, and doesn’t mind engaging in healthy discussions about our differences…and there are many.
This is not a man anyone would have ever fixed me up with or introduced me to. We are, as he says, incongruous. But somehow it seems to be working.
Maybe it’s because I stopped thinking about what society or my friends or my family thinks about my choices and decided at this stage in my life fun might be the operative word. Fun and acceptance for who I am not what he thinks I should be.
The bottom line? I like him. Is he “the one”? I have no idea. I’m not sure there is “a one” anymore. But I can tell you he is worth the trouble I went through to find him.
And he’s a great kisser!