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8 things I wish I’d known before I started a business

Barbara Winter started her first home-based business before there was even a name for this work-at-home phenomenon. She is the author of Making a Living Without a Job: Winning Ways For Creating Work That You Love and Jumpstart Your Entrepreneurial Spirit! Barbara's website, Joyfully Jobless, is dedicated to sharing information and inspiration with other entrepreneurs.
When I started my first business, I didn't know another self-employed person. There also was no Internet and not many books that were written for someone wanting to create a one-person operation. It was all trial and error--lots of error. Today there are abundant resources, but some of the most important things I learned still aren't being acknowledged. Here are eight things I wish I had known sooner.
  1. The business you start out with is not the business you end up with.
    By its very nature, business is an evolutionary process. As you change and grow--and as the marketplace changes and grows--you'll make adjustments. The good news is that you can get started wherever and whenever you want without having to know every detail. Be willing for your business to deliver pleasant surprises.

  2. Refuse to take advice from uninformed sources.
    It's easy when you're filled with self-doubt to listen to dreambashers. Don't do it. And don't solicit advice from those who have failed. It's amazing to me how often I talk to people who have abandoned a great idea because someone who knew nothing about their business (and probably wasn't even an entrepreneur themselves) talked them out of it.

  3. Know the difference between an expense and an investment.
    Many new self-bossers see any outlay of money as an expense. While your business will have costs associated with running it, spending money now to produce a greater good in the future is an investment. Your money needs to go to both.

  4. What you don't know can be learned.
    Part of building a successful business is determining which parts of it make your heart sing and which make your heart sink. Once you know that, you can farm out the parts that you're not good at. Equally important is learning how to research your ideas and connect with informed sources. If you operate on the assumption that you can acquire the information and skills you need at every stage of development, you'll always have the pleasure of being a voluntary student.

  5. Personal growth is a daily activity.
    Paul Hawken says, "Being in business is not about making money. It's a way to become who you are." I became an entrepreneur because I was curious about what I could become. Self-employment continues to be my best teacher. There's a basic truth you need to keep in mind: you can't outperform your self-image. In order for your enterprise to reach it's fullest potential, you have to reach yours. An occasional seminar or personal growth book or CD isn't going to have the impact that daily work on your self will. Happily, there's an abundance of tools to help you do just that.

  6. Don’t confuse a project with a dream.
    Your dreams are your ultimate destination; a project is a step along the way. Too many people use a project failure as an excuse to abandon their dreams. Know the difference.

  7. Patience is your best friend.
    There's a fine line between being patient and being a procrastinator. It seems to me that what many people call failure is simply running out of patience, giving up before their idea had a chance to blossom. For most entrepreneurs, patience is an on-going challenge.

  8. Know the difference between taking a risk and taking a calculated risk.
    Timid people who are not self-bossers think that you're a wild person jeopardizing your family and finances. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Studies have shown that successful entrepreneurs take risks, but they're cautious, calculated ones based on research—and intuition. Part of the appeal and adventure of being joyfully jobless is not always knowing exactly how things will turn out.

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CDenver said to Barbara Winter
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Read your advice before I started my day at my own home business and it helped set the stage for a positive day.  Thank you.

Salome said to Barbara Winter
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Hi from Athens Greece  www.istoriesgiacinema.gr

Your 8 things are very helpful.

Thank you

Salome Sakellariou

Melodee said to Barbara Winter
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Thanks for the great post, Barbara. You were an inspiration to me when I was starting my Virtual Assistance business!

One thing I would add: Join a support group. There are women business owners groups all over the country and online. You don't have to do it alone - get support :-)

Barbara Winter said to Melodee
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Support groups are great, but this list was intended to be more philosophical than action-oriented.

romoe said to Melodee
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Thanks for the added support tip. How do I find these support groups on line? Do you have a particular site that you can share?

Thanks for tip.

ebrena said to Melodee
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What are some support groups?

DCC said to Barbara Winter
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Very Simply, I LOVE THIS LIST.

All great points!

Barbara Winter said to DCC
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Thanks so much. It was fun to put it together.

Julie_G said to Barbara Winter
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Thanks for this. Very inspiring. I especially like the part about it being more about personal growth than money. I know that's certainly true for me. I'm learning a lot about who I am and who I can become. (But hopefully the money will come, too!)

nangano said to Barbara Winter
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I wish I had been more adept at accounting and more assertive with my clients. Knowing your business and running your business are 2 different things. You need to be able to delegate and have the right people, trustful individuals, managing your affairs.

Ainslee Grace said to Barbara Winter
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I started a small bookkeeping/accounting/secretarial/tax service...for women with small businesses. It was wonderful as they could afford someone like me-a few or as many hrs a month- we were very networked with other women.

A time-share bookkeeper can be a big help with many areas, but I do believe, "delegating, reducing distractions, finding employees," are the hardest areas to address when you are starting out.

EVELYNE said to Barbara Winter
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Those are great advices and I will follow them. Thank you. FRANCE

4honeybunch2 said to Barbara Winter
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Wow...how right you are. I too have a home based business. I thought I would have been sitting on Oprah's couch 5 years ago. Now she's retiriing and I struggle to find a home for my menopause themed gifts and cards. It's not the same business as it was in the beginning...like me, it has evolved.

I have also learned there is a fine line between "oh I just love that" and...."I have to have it".

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Natalie Caine said to 4honeybunch2
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Great list . Thank you.  I launched Empty Nest Support Services from an ah ha I had during my daughter's senior year meeting for parents. I did not want anyone to go through this major life transition alone.  She is a happy college graduate . I had no idea I would be writing, photographing, being interviewed by top media, speaking with thousands of parents across the country and beyond. Each consultation on the phone or email I receive reminds me where I was when my daughter left for college and what I love passing to parents and their children of how to re invent , feel what you feel, and know who you are and aren't.  I learned so much and one thing I want to pass on is ASK FOR HELP.  Reveal where you can trust the person. Take pauses to not think about your business by getting outside.  I could ask for help with can you call or pick this up for me.  The vulnerability of doubting if my service was really needed was more challenging to ask for support than asking someone to teach me about website building.  We are will feel fear and get caught in the moments of is this of value for me and others.  The surprise is it takes longer than you think for the seeds to grow.  Yes, I agree they grow in places you didn't even know the bird had planted them for you.  Say thank you and be open.  Your business feeds your creativity which feeds your mind and vitality.  Well, I could talk about this subject forever since I love what I do.  We all need support when we are changing . Thank you for posting this topic.  Happy Spring, Natalie Caine

Barbara Winter said to Natalie Caine
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Great true story, Natalie. AND my blog post today is called Why Not Ask? and points out that we sometimes don't get support because nobody knows we want it.

kash said to Barbara Winter
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I couldn't agree more.  I am preparing to launch an online business based on a product I developed in the mid-1980's.  After all these years, different jobs and experiences, I am throwing myself into my business full-time.  The original concept has evolved.  The challenge is the nay-sayers.  I jumped out of an airplane and landed safely many years ago.  I am a thoughtful risk taker and I am confident in my decision, my creative talent, my contacts, and my courage to  be my own boss.

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