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Those darn dating sitesHot Conversation

I know this is a relatively trivial matter compared to other issues addressed on this site, but I am overly emotional today about something and need some calm advice. I have been in a very positive long distance relationship with a man (55) my age f (read more...)

Is a Maid of Honor Necessary?Hot Conversation

My boyfriend has been talking about marriage A LOT. This will be the 2nd marriage for both of us, I have 2 grown sons, he has 1. We would like to have a small ceremony perhaps in a tropical location. My problem is I don't have any close friends (he h (read more...)

And I thought my decision to divorce after 39 years was my final decision!! NOT! Hot Conversation

I am in desperate need of the wisdom and common sense of my fellow VN sisters.  I left my husband of 39 years in 2011 and the divorce was final in 2012. Two weeks after I left he was told that his cancer had returned. 8 months later he had a Bone Ma (read more...)

How can I overcome the depression?Hot Conversation

My husband of 19 years decided to divorce me two weeks ago. It was a total surprise to me. He met someone else. I am 50 years old and have a 16 years old at home. My husband has much higher income and he is trying to get out cheap. I can't help mys (read more...)

My sister defended the woman who broke up my marriage to me. How do I handle this?Hot Conversation

Here's a good one. A few days ago I was having a meal with my sister. She is ten years older than I am, and has always felt the need to tell me how to live my life. I never seem to quite make it to her standards - not that I am trying - but she seems (read more...)

do you isolate yourself working from homeHot Conversation

I started to wonder today whether I am a normal work from home person. I used to work in an office but my company started to lose money and asked the sales staff to work from home. This was 4 years ago. Most of my clients are in other cities so I mai (read more...)

With Friends Like This....Most LikedHot Conversation

I have a "friend" who I'm considering removing from my life.  We were quite close at one time and she moved away.  She's very opinionated.  Claims to be a Christian always spewing scripture.  Yet she doesn't walk the walk.  She was in town for a (read more...)
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How obsessive mothers can survive advice-giving without injuryMost LikedHot Conversation

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Drug AddictionHot Conversation

For about a year now, I have suspected that my 22 yr. old son is doing hard drugs. He's just finished is junior year in college and even spent last semester studying abroad. I don't know why I just had this gut feeling. I knew he was drinking and smo (read more...)

SkinHot Conversation

I am in my 60s and my skin is super dry..there's this awful itching,nothing shows on the skin,so it's not a dermatology thing,I can't touch my face..severe burning when I do..help (read more...)

HairHot Conversation

I was a toe head growing up.  I have some gray now (don't know how much).  Hairdresser uses light brown with a few highlights.  It's not me.  I want to cover the gray with blonde.  Has anyone done this?  If so, do you like it? Thanks.  Cody (read more...)

Lessons From Mom - Things I Learned To AppreciateMost LikedHot Conversation

Time is the great eye opener. (read more...)
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spouse's suicideHot Conversation

Have any of you experienced the suicide of a spouse after you asked for a divorce or separation?    (read more...)

Seeing the ex with his girlfriend in the restaurant - what would you do?Hot Conversation

Last Friday evening, I was out with a girlfriend for dinner at our favorite restaurant in town.  I have heard that my ex's girlfriend from last summer is back and is at my old house from Friday till Sunday.  He even leaves work early now to be with (read more...)

In The HoleMost LikedHot Conversation

I'm in that hole today. The one where I miss him. I'm lucky to be rid of him; but how I long for the "nice, loving" him. He's not that way much, maybe 40% of the time, maybe. My mind says that if I just call him and explain how much we meant to each (read more...)

Find My Passion???Hot Conversation

This may seem like an odd question coming from a 50 something woman, but; how does a person fingure out what her passion is and/or what she wants to do when she grows up? I have no clue what to do with my life now that I am "single" and have started (read more...)

young husband ?Hot Conversation

I hv been separated for 3 yrs and in divorce process. I am 47, I met a young man just abt 22, we hv long distance relation abt 2 yrs, and he wants to marry me...I love him, but ..can this relation work ? (read more...)

Best hairstyles for fine hair or thin hair: Stay ahead of hair loss with strategic cuts, styling tricks and colorMost LikedHot Conversation

Before we get specific about the best cuts and color solutions for fine, thinning hair, you need to know that hair loss doctors do not expect you to stop coloring your hair (if you do) or resist using heat to style it. What they do suggest is being s (read more...)
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How to do gray hair right: 10 tips for going gray beautifullyMost LikedHot Conversation

What does gray hair mean to you? To award-winning beauty and style editor Lois Joy Johnson, "Gray hair is a silvery Rolls Royce or smoky Bentley gleaming with class. It's silver Elsa Peretti jewelry shining in the cases at Tiffany & Co." (read more...)
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The top 6 vaginal lubricants for overcoming the female dryness that causes intercourse painMost LikedHot Conversation

While everyone knows some ways that menopause and aging affect a woman’s body — can anyone say wrinkles or hot flashes? — many women are embarrassed to discuss painful intercourse resulting from vaginal dryness. It’s es (read more...)
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