My husband had an affair over 10 years ago. We worked and worked and we made it through. However, there is still a part of me that has never fully trusted him. I looked through his phone yesterday and there were texts between him and a woman. I was devastated! I went through the betrayal all over again. When I confronted him he said he was just “playing!” He met her through a game that he plays online. He tells me he doesn’t know why he does this; he had no answer for me. Our sex life has been non-existent (I’m 56, he’s 53 and overweight, smokes and lethargic). I don’t know what to do. Actually, I do know. Get into therapy but I’m so heartbroken right now. I fought so hard the first time to save my marriage and now this. I don’t know if I really want to. He says he loves me and I’m the one he wants to be with and grow old with but after yesterday’s discovery I’m lost.