hi i am 56 years old. i always heard that when you go through menopause that your sexual drive decrease. i talked to other women says thats not true. if you start slacking in sex more and more your body doesnt remember what was the feeling. i talked to men and women they say continue to get your peak whatever it takes so your hormones stay awake because you lose your libido if you suddenly stop and then you dont feel for it amymore. i am eager and happy to tell you i have started to use things to arouse me and more and more i do i want sex so bad i am more infactuated for sex then i was 25 years old and better. so please try dont just let yourself go because you are over 50. it keeps you young and vibrant and glowing to the fact your hormones are acting out what they were suppose to be.