I’m smart, I give GREAT advice and wisdom; but I don’t listen to my own advice! I’ve been married and divorced twice. Now, I’ve been in a relationship for nearly 7 years, and he is not interested in sex. Not that important to him, he says. We go days with out kissing or hugging. If I don’t initiate affection, we’d go weeks! Good man, good provider, works hard, and we have a beautiful home! I could go on. And, I love him. I’m a very young 53 year old, and he’s 50! We still have a lot of years in us; and I want to have SEX!!! Yes. I’ve told him.