May-December relationships

December 15, 2011 at 9:03 am in Family & Relationships, Love & Sex by esprit de couer

I am 54 years old and in a sort of May-December relationship with my fiance.  After being in abusive relationships, I have found a haven of care and love.  We still have some problems, and have been through our share of troubles. We have no children.  Is anybody else out there in a similar situation?  We are lower income, and the Medicare rules prevent us from getting married because of my fiance’s health.  Is anybody else out there in the same boat?   Comments would be welcome.