Frustrated with daughter-in-law

My son and his wife are expecting their first grandchild in January - my 1st grandchild! I am frustrated with my daughter-in-law. My son told me and my husband that he wanted us to help paint and install chair rail in the nursery, but my son just told me that her grandfather is going to do it tomorrow. Urgh! Now, we'll have nothing to do with preparing the nursery, it will be only her family, as it usually is with her. I've really gotten my feelings hurt and hate putting my son in the middle. What should we do? I'm afraid this is setting a precedent with this grandbaby.. All about her family, nothing with my son's family....


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