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I’m in a bad living arrangement with an abusive husband and son. I don’t know what to do. I don’t make enough money to stay in my house alone. I should probably move out and get my own place but I’ve lived her 26 years and that’s easier said then done. Help me!
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I agree with She Cat. As much as you want answers, he's being a jerk by ignoring you. This speaks volumes about him.
I lost my temper at work. I immediately wrote a letter apologizing saying just what you said. I also apologized in person. When my boss called me in I told her that I lost my temper, there was no excuse for it, and it would not happen again. I did What is happening with you now? Are you okay?I'm sorry. I, too, have been in a 35 year, verbally abusive, drinking marriage. I moved 3000 miles away just 10 months ago. How about you ask your daughter what she thinks? Surely she has witnessed the situation. If you must stay until the wedding isI have always been a Chicos fan...I don't think their clothes are frumpy at all...and I am short but not petite so their clothes fi me well and I really love their boxy jackets....I will never buy from Coldwater Creek again...The first and only time 
Just do it. Do not stay in an abusive relationship.
When I read the words abusive son and husband- I got a sick feeling in my stomach. Its been almost 30 years since I was in an abusive relationship and had to call the police to escape the situation in the middle of the night with one bag and my 2 month old baby but those words brought the feelings of that night flooding back. I’m not sure what the shelter situation is like in your area, but calling an abuse hotline in most places give you a fast, safe passage to a free place to stay until you can contact caring friends, church members, or family who are willing to have you live peacefully with them at a low cost. The things you have accumulated over the years can’t come with you right away or maybe not ever if your husband chooses to retaliate. Just pack your most favorite things- and more importantly- your very valuable self- make a quick decisive move! When you are in a good environment you will be able to gather the strength to take steps forward that will create a new path of happiness and hope.