By the time, my daughter was 10, my daughter developed a love- hate relationship toward me ( her dad divorced me and she knew, I loved him with all my heart, but it wasn’t enough for either of them). He left us and everything with her started.
I have told her, that if I end up Ina home of some nature, I dont’t want her to visit. She just starts screaming at me and won’t stop. You can’t talk to her, because any word is picking on her.
The truth is, I don’t care if I see her ever, but she informed me, I don’t have that choice, because it would hurt her.
I’m so tired of censoring every word, every action, every everything for the last 45 years.
I think she’s old enough to quit throwing tantrums, but has a whole cast of believers, where she lives. Those on the West coast know the truth and all those that live in Mn , thinks I’m the witch of all mothers.
Has anyone else had a child they love, that drives them crazy?
I was always there for her, in things other mothers would have turned her away.
She loves me in her own way, but she creates situations that I can do nothing, but try to defend myself and I become the villain. It’s not just me, others have witnessed it. When this happens, she starts screaming at me, throws on the tears and Informs everyone, no matter how hard she tries, I cause these outbursts.
She,s 55, I travel to see her every 2 years, with her begging me to come. Every 2 years, it’s the same thing again.