my husband and I are separated and He keeps calling and wanting to spend time. I need some space. I have tried to talk to him about it.
| Need space from my husband |
December 30, 2009
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Do you know the reason that you need space? Are you really getting ready to divorce? It’s important to know the answer to these questions because it makes a big difference when dealing with your husband. There’s nothing wrong with needing space. Even in a good marriage having space is essential to being healthy. So first, define what type of space you need, be honest. Are you feeling suffocated or made to feel you have to meet his expectations? Is it about him or about you and him or about just you. Talk to us.
Hello, my first marriage ended in Divorce, my choice. I understand the difficulties and wish you well. Two of my friends are at different stages one separated and the other going through the divorce process found these books to be lifesavers. The second will also help you understand how to deal with your husband during this time. The first will help you work through the decision process.
1) “September Songs: The Good News About Marriage in the Later Years” http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_1_15?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=september+songs+the+good+news+about+marriage+in+the+later+years&sprefix=September+Songs
2) “Getting Divorces Without Ruining Your Life” http://www.amazon.com/Getting-Divorced-Without-Ruining-Your/dp/074320641X
Please let me know if you found some answer to your question, I going through the same thing as you…but not sure if you totally lost your feeling of love toward your husband or not, but I felt that way…maybe I am confuse or don’t understand myself.