I love my husband. We have been married for 15 years and have had a great time. I am 8 years older than him, I’m now 55 and he will be 47 in Jan. He has a passionate long distance relationship going on with an old flame, who is 41, married with 2 kids. On the phone usage report I see they talked for 2 hours at a time, they are constantly texting and “sexting”. I went to a marriage counselor and she said he is going thru mid life crisis and there is a reason he chose someone in CT instead of GA where we live. She told me to back off and stay out of his way until this fantasy with her gets old and most couples make it through. I am NOT LEAVING MY HOME and he said last night this was HIS home and it might become “an issue”, he has not seen a lawyer or at least he says he hasn’t. He is counting on me to get fed up and leave. Has anyone been through this and kept the marriage in tact. Please don’t tell me to divorce him or leave him, I really think we can work this out if I could get HER out of the picture. I’ve thought about trying to contact her husband but I’m afraid that would blow up in my face, I’ve thought about calling her but I’m sure she is enjoying the fantasy as much as he is. I need advice on how not to go crazy right now, I feel so alone right now. He has NEVER been unfaithful before.
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