I feel like i am progressing with the healing of my divorce after 31 years when he unexpectedly took off with a coworker, but it still bothers me terribly when my soon to be ex calls one of our grown daughters or goes to see just one of them after 3 or 4 months intervals. I can hardly tolerate him trying to talk to them after ignoring them too so long after he left. He wants his relationship with the coworker and still be a saint to his daughters in his mind. This is so hard.
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Personally I dont think you can stop it, I am sure your daughters know what your ex has done and I am sure they are thinking it is terrible, but still their dad. You are better to take the high road and not judge him.
I have been divorce for 30 years. My ex and I have two grown sons and four grandchildren together. He left us and said he was tired of married life and wanted his freedom. One year later he gets married again to a woman with five children. He calls and sends birthday cards and gifts. It does not bother me, because no matter what happen between us, they will always be his children and grandchildren too. Divorce is really hard when you have children, especially during holidays, graduations, wedding and special events. Death is better than a divorce in my opinion because with a divorce, you will see your ex with someone and brings back lots of memories. Dealing with a death you do not. This is my feelings toward married life.