Several months ago I reached out to the women on VN and asked a question, is he real or is he a flake. It was a post about this guy I had met who came across like Mr. Wonderful. Who seemed sincere and wanted a relationship. He would write me poems and we seemed to have a lot in common. Nothing intimate happened between us, thanks for that. He had told me that his wife had died and this is why he had moved to Texas to have a change. Lord have mercy, no I take that back, I started to say Lord have mercy on a man (person) who would tell a lie like that just to get a woman’s attention.
He was the driver of the bus that I take home when I get off work, he transferred when the drivers changed and coincidently the person who took over the route was the driver before him and she and I had develped a friendship. Well he had asked her about me and told her to tell me hello. What he did not know she was picking him for information for me and she told me one day he is married. That his wife is very sick but very much alive. That is just terrible. I can not imagine a person telling another person that their spouse is deceased. I would be scared for what might happen to me. What if the lightening strike you down.