I am totally disgusted with my sister. I’ve not had much of a relationship, if any, with her for the last 20+ years. Then, after my father dies mom decides to live with me in Florida, she and her husband want to move down.
She & he conveys that the will help out with mom, etc. Guess what, it happens only very little. I’ve had family meetings, spoke to her while being upset and overwhelmed, had bitter fights & spoke plainly about what I need from her concerning mom. My husband I have tried helping them as they don’t have much. However, it is their doing…very lazy, don’t want to work, they work the system. Quite frankly they are an embarrassment to me.
Well, time went by…mom bought them a used car in order for them to be able to come see her and help me. My husband helped him w/purchasing car & loaned him $ for insurance. Well he still hasn’t paid back yet, so I got involved.
This crap is way more than I can take, so yesterday I told her I don’t want any kind of relationship unless something changes on their part. Today I spoke w/her & insisted he pay us $ owed & told her basically I don’t have a sister (which that’s what it feels like anyway). Anyone else having these kind of family issues and how are you handling them?