Believe it or not, after only being separated for 6 months, my husband has cancer. It is contained in his kidney so surgery should be all that’s necessary. When he found out he called me which is what he’s done for 20 years, and he really doesn’t have anyone else around. He is lucky enough to have his mom who is flying in for his surgery.
The question is: how involved do I need to be ? I am a compassionate person and feel for him, but do not want to give him false hope about us. Also, he is a 50 year old man that never grew up and part of the reason I left is that I was tired of taking care of him ! I’m not sure how long his mom will be here but I imagine his recovery time won’t be short. They will probably remove his kidney. Help me ? I’m really not the bad guy in all of this, but I love my new FREE life !!!!