I’m going through a divorce and have relied heavily on the support of my best friend. She’s considerably younger than me, but we’ve been friends for a long time.
I felt the tentacles of control wrapping around me from her, and vented those feelings in an email to a sister-friend of over 30 yrs. She hacked into my email, read mail not meant for her eyes. Her revenge was swift and brutal. She doesn’t see that she stole my privacy.
I cannot wrap my brain around her heinous behavior. Why, why, would someone who supposedly was a close friend, feel the need to invade her friend’s privacy? She has vital documents of mine in her possession and she’s holding them in ‘hostage” until I pay a debt that is none of her business. This man knows I will repay him. He loaned me the money to retain a lawyer for my divorce. He helped me change my life.
She has ruined what was an amicable, post divorce friendship with my ex. And my trust.I don’t remember who said it, but it was something like, ‘there are two kinds of people. Smart and Trusting. It’s rare when you find both in one person. if you’re smart, you can’t trust. And if you trust, you’re not smart. I was one of the rare idiots. Not anymore. zsa zsa
Oh, how sweet. Yep, looking back, I just embrace the awkwardness of her. Thank you for your sweet and meaningful reply.
I've always thought that viewing porn has to do with mens fantasies about control etc and usually has nothing to do with their real relationships. Men who need to view it are not going to change unless they become bored with it. I had a bf who admi
Shirley - that's funny but what you are saying is true about the men...first sex, then a little company, then back to the dating sites. :) There are too many fish on line to stick with just one so they go back to see what else is available. I am a me
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