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November 24, 2009
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Sounds very interesting.
Spike, you are awesome! Love your perspective, thanks for sharing.
I know I’m not.
I was and am. We were married for 30 years, but due to different dreams where I wanted to live in a small town and some minor things we ended up divorced but stayed friends. I dated a bit, but found nothing but liars and men with a ton of baggage. Decided it was better to be alone, then 3 years after our divorce we are back together as he has changed his mind about small town living and we worked on the other things.
NICE, SO GLAD FOR YOU BOTH. THERE WASN’T ALOT FOR HIM EITHER.
AND NO I AM NOT, THANK GOD.
I have 3 ex husbands and I am not in love with any of them.
I hate one. (And I dont use that word lightly)
I’m totally ambivalent about one (and I havent seen him in over 20 years, although we did exchange emails this year).
And the 3rd (the father of my son) is one of my best friends.
no…not….nada………….but, coincidentally, I just received a call last week from my first husband (who, before he chose to see if the grass was greener) was the absolute love of my life…………but, I chose not to accept his behavior way back when…….I moved on, but totally forgave and we are still friends………..but……..here is the rest of the story……….he asked me to consider retiring with him……..travel, share expenses, etc……….but, not platonically………..sorry, guy, but those days for you are over………..don’t they say that you don’t realize what you had until you lost it?
I’m know I am not either. My Ex and my beloved are worlds apart. Thank the heavens!!
My ex is a schmoe (if that can even be a word). I find myself wondering what the hell I ever saw in him in the first place. Not that I wish him bad luck or anything, but I find that I’m much, much, much BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM!!!
Good! And it’s a word.
i am fond of my son’s father. We divorced due to his inmaturity and cheating. However, that was a long time ago. At first i thought i hated him and wished him dead and told him so, over and over again. Now 35 years later, i just feel sorry for him. He is ill and alone. I hoped for a better life for him, but he ended up a ruined man. Very sad.
Love and hate, a fine line, eh? I will always love my childhood sweetheart, but always hate the man who broke my heart and cheated on me a zillion times. They are the same person. deep, real deep…lol!
In 31 years of married life, with my EX, I had been through extreme love, extreme hate and everything in between. Marriage councilors didn’t help, clergy didn’t help, and anything I tried on my own didn’t help. Then one day, when my Ex walked in the door coming from his job, and the only feelings I had for him were equal to the feeling I had for a nameless man walking past me on the street, I knew it couldn’t ever be fixed, he didn’t want it to be fixed. SO NO I don’t love him in any other way than as a stranger, fellow planet dweller, human being….but I also don’t waste my energy hating him…
I have seen him since and he is now a sad little man who resigned himself to an assisted living center because he just didn’t want to put forth the effort to do what I had been doing for him. At least the nurse maids there get paid…. LOL
…haha…I am BEST friends with my X but I would never in a million years be in love with him again! We have three children in their twenties and for the past 15 years, after divorce, have raised them in a co-parenting situation. I had to forgive him along time ago, in my heart, b/c I was in fear of raising my children the way I was raised – in a home where the word DAD was NOT mentioned, or get slapped. I wanted so much more for my kids, so I forgave him, and since we have had a ball. All holidays are together. We even take family vacations to relatives every few years. Our kids are well rounded b/c of our relationship and they are aware that forgiveness is a very special thing. I certainly don’t love my X intimately BUT I do love him as a person! Good luck!!!
yes, the divorce, after 32 years, was not of my doing but his, because of his health complications. for that reason alone I have not been able to move on. i am stuck in an in between mode yet i am learning to make the most of my life.
I was in love with my wasband of 30 years for 9 years after our divorce. But after he married my best friend -I got over him and her and feel much better about life.