Does it get easier? My oldest, 28, who never left home even for college, has moved 1500 miles away on Mon. I’m really struggling with it. We’re close, and I always thought he was such a homebody type, large circle of friends, that he’d never do this. But he met a girl online and transferred with a better opportunity with his company, and he’s gone. I feel like a part of me is gone too. I know all about doing things you like to do and reconnecting with your spouse, but right now I want to just cry all the time. My younger child is moving this month, too, but nearby. Any advice? Can you sustain a good relationship over distance?



I know you pain. My last child just moved out too. Its a sad/happy/scary event. You just have to be assured that you raised him to be independent. Your relationship will change no matter how far or near they move. You are not party to everyday events and the small talk. The closeness The sadness does ease after a while. Let yourself grieve for the loss of the role you once played in your children’s life. Then look forward to the new role you will have with him. Everything will be alright.