It was brought to my attention by a good friend that most of my problems were the result of being a people pleaser. This was several years ago, and I was shocked until I realized she was right. I set about course correcting it for my own sake and this week I saw that people pleasing was a thing of the past for me. I was in a meeting and someone who had been in the group longer took umbrage at my leadership in the group. She rolled her eyes, gave snide comments while I just soldiered on. It simply didn’t matter anymore. In truth I could see that her reaction had everything to do with her and nothing, I mean nothing, to do with me.
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I think Freud would have at least an essay on this "ugly ugly vagina" statement. Is it a representation of rejection of female self, is it a representation of rejection of mother, what are all the underlying statements?
For those of you who love a
Hi Bonnie,
Hi Bonnie,
Girl, don't lose hope. Maybe there will be someone in those two merged churches, there just might be someone there who catches your eye, eh? Stay hopeful.
Sending love to ANYONE will make YOU feel better. It is not about condoning the actions of someone who is clearly bent on destruction, or the terrorists in the Boston bombing or anyone who would take away life or liberty of others. I wonder if any
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