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There is nothing to be proud of with the explicit messages magazines, movies and shows like Girls Gone Wild are constantly feeding female youth. As a boomer woman who recalls the fight for women’s rights, I’m proud of how far we’ve come in some regards, but am stifled by the distance we still must travel to dispel the image of women as sex symbols. When did it become cool to lift your shirt and bare all to crowds of guys, or share erotic performances while guys literally lay back and reap the benefits? All of the sudden everyone’s a Playboy Bunny to the max. It’s surprising that girls are trying to "suck up" to guys. I’m afraid it’s too hard for girls to opt out of the sexuality role expected. How can we convince our girls that this behavior is twisted?
| Ariel Levy is gutsy, brilliant and forthright with her take on how and why all of this is taking place. It’s alarming when you read the truth about messages being sent to our girls on a daily basis. I recommend this book |
Founder of the National Association of Baby Boomer Women and BoomerWomenSpeak.com, the number one sites on major search engines for "baby boomer women."
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Dotsie,
This is a book I will order. As a seasoned image consultant (and Boomer), I'm asked by the boss to come into a corporation and teach young employees how to dress. "Judge me by my credentials, not my image," they all say. Ultimately, they see for themselves that they, too, judge others by the way they look. That's the only way they will take a look at themselves.
Dr. Peter Glick has done extensive gender bias studies, and he has shown conclusively that when you dress provocatively at work, you are labeled a bimbo. As young women become more desirous of moving up the ranks in business, I expect they will change their minds about the imporrtance of their image.
I may be piloried for dragging out this old saw, but the female chauvinist pigs who do the most harm at my job (public sector) have been women age 50+, who repeatedly undermine my work via malicious gossip and backbiting. They may call themselves feminists, but will follow orders from men without question. Passive-aggressive behavior remains the bane of many women in the workplace.
It's maddening and also reinforces this behavior among the young women who use provacative clothing to advance.
Sounds like a great book. I've always felt this way.
I'm happy to share that there are people focusing on Girls Gone Good. A local women's group had a contest last year where people recommended young teens doing good works and awarded a finalist with many prizes. Great idea to focus on what's right instead of what's wrong.
I've been approached by several girl's "groups" as this, to speak. It's a great idea to begin when girls are young. The celebrity culture, and the Playboy/Girls Gone Wild culture has pervaded our society (really all over the world) because "sex sells"! Women allow a lot of manipulation of their psyches--without being conscious of it. Witness even the "makeovers" on TV almost always show a woman who was casually dressed in an unstylish look then coming out in the obligatory "sexy" cocktail dress. The assumption is that women always want to look "sexy". I think casual style really represents our daily reality and women (and interestingly men too ) need to understand the beauty of understatement--that "sexy" is not necessarily exposure-- and how to develop a more intelligent modern personal style.
Sherrie (www.sherriemathieson.com)
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