A first date can be a fearsome endeavour. Confidence is such a crucial element on a first date - or any date - or just in general.
Do you have something in your wardrobe that flatters you-that makes you feel good about yourself? The cut, the color, the decoration? Is there something that you put on whenever you want to look unique/special? When you're on the dating market, remember that you are competing with a myriad of other ladies - if you have something that sets you apart, then for goodness' sake WEAR IT.
What I do, is wear an outfit that is pretty basic, or mildly retro, and then amp it up with jewelry, scarves or patterned hose, etc. Light up the basics, if you like.
However. As the answers before me have said, you do not need to do anything excessive, or foolish. Heels that are stylish but too high to walk in; blouses so low cut you can't lean over for a second helping of BBQ (or whatever) will make you uncomfortable, to say the least.
In many ways a first date is like a job interview. You want to wear something that puts you at ease, but will set you apart. On the other hand you don't want to wear anything dour, (who knows, your date might have the attention span of a lemming) or too tight/short.
Amazingly, dates are actually supposed to be fun. And what could be more fun than going out and Knowing that you look fabulous, and beating the ladies at their own game?
by Lisa Daily. I've read it and it's very insightful and hilariously entertaining!
