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What are you thankful for this holiday season?
posted 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

As many of us prepare our hearts and homes for the coming Thanksgiving holiday, our minds turn to the things for which we're truly grateful.

We asked some of our most active members and contributors to answer this question, "What will you be most grateful for as you sit down to Thanksgiving dinner this year?"

Read their responses, then add your own!

responses (16)

elizabeth cassidy said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!
11 years ago I lost my best friend, David, to AIDS. He passed on Thanksgiving Day and although my grief was unbearable, a calmness came over me because I was so grateful for David being in my life for almost 15 years.

Each Thanksgiving (as well as most days) I am reminded that I was one of the lucky ones to have had David in my life. Plus, he is pretty good at finding things for me even to this day.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your loved ones!
Sarah G. Carter said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

I'm thankful beyond belief to have been given one more opportunity to build a once and for all, this is it, loving, committed relationship. I've been luckier than some, and have had other chances, but for whatever reason - mismatch, emotional immaturity, circumstances beyond our control - I've never been able to get there.

We're all looking for it - to love and be loved. I'm not sure which end of the equation is harder, but it's clear that we need to be willing to do both. At any rate, I've been given the chance to try again, and this time I'm not going to squander it. (I'm reminded of a bumper sticker spotted in Texas when the bottom feel out of the oil market: "Please God, give us oil one more time, and we promise not to piss it away.")

Against all odds, I've found something remarkable, but I'm keenly aware that it takes more than luck to feed it, nurture it, and grow it into something real and solid and sustainable. In fact, I believe the simple act of gratitude goes a long way to creating the very thing we're looking for. I will never take what Russ and I have together for granted, and I will never, never "piss it away". This is it. I'm going for broke."

[Editor's note: Visit Sarah's Journal to get the inside scoop on her new-found love.]

Sandy Dumont said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!
I am most grateful for my health. I am also grateful to all my girlfriends throughout the world who have been there for me in the best and worst of times.
Melinda Giordano said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!
Every year - since I can't imagine when - I've written a list of things to be thankful for on Thanksgiving morning. The items vary slightly through the years, but a few things remain steadfast: I am thankful for my parents, I am thankful for my home, I am thankful for my friends, I am thankful for what small talents I have been given. I am also thankful that I'm not dead yet!
slide said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

I am grateful that 75% of the voters in the county I live in, and the county I work in, voted against fear and hate and instead voted to retain marriage rights for gay and lesbian people.

April L. Hamilton said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

This has been a trying year for my family and countless others, but it's definitely kept my priorities in focus. I'm grateful for my family, my work, and the freedom to shape my own future.

Lauri said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!
Every moment of every day I am grateful for the health, well-being and happiness of my children.

Above and beyond this gratefulness, this year I am feeling especially grateful that we will end this year and start off 2009 knowing that the leadership of our country will be on a new course.

I don't know, and I don't think anyone else does either, how the new administration will handle everything that is going to be thrown at them, but just the fact that the country has new options,a new direction, and a fresh outlook for dealing with old tired problems, makes me extremely grateful this year!

jancullinane said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!
I’m grateful for the opportunity to greet each day with a sense of adventure; to enjoy my family, friends (including virtual friends), and my "child in a fur coat" (Riley, my dog); for the privilege of freedom, the ability to pursue my passions, and the wisdom to know what’s really important.
Simply Impressive said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!
I am thankful that I am married to the most wonderful man in the world. He is supportive of what I do and is always there for me... No matter what.

I am thankful for my family and friends that are there when I need to laugh or cry (or both).

I am thankful for the blessings I have. Yes, I have a lot of material blessings... But they are only part of the picture. I have been blessed with wonderful people, the drive to get things done, the ability to be there for others, to be compassionate or strict, and know when to use either one. I am blessed that I have options for which direction I want my life to go. Some people are stuck in a job or a marriage they hate because they have no other options.

I am blessed with good health because without it, life can be challenging. I am blessed because I have dreams; some which I strive for, and others where I just dream about.

I am blessed because I live in the greatest country in the world, where we are free to live our life to the fullest. I am blessed because I live in a time where Americans realize that we truly CAN be anything we want to be. Our glass ceiling is raising every day.

Mary B. Harvey said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

This Thanksgiving, I’ll be thankful for the many dear friends I made while working on the Barack Obama campaign. I’ve come to know exceptional young people who have the best interest of our country at heart, neighbors who share my political views, wonderful women and men of all races, faiths, ages who passionate about the change we need and who live just a stone’s throw from where I had felt isolated as a liberal Democrat for many years.

Collectively we have such tremendous hope for our country and our world with the leadership of Obama and Biden. During the election season, I’ve witnessed the true power of the American spirit. This Thanksgiving I will feel especially grateful for this chance to transform our nation and our world along positive paths that provide hope, opportunity and peace for us all.

And that’s just in addition to the thankfulness I feel for my family, friends, business and our staff, my wonderful husband Jim and our best pals Roxie, the yellow lab, Sundance, the golden retriever and Bogey, the amazing guide dog.

l.m. lopez said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

I am grateful that we elected Barack Obama President. And I am grateful for the wide availability of 80%+ dark chocolate!

Diane MacEachern said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

I am grateful for the enthusiasm that so many people are showing for greener living. It’s been a really long time coming. I celebrated the first Earth Day in 1970 and got my master’s degree in 1977. I have been in the trenches for a really long time. There were the Reagan years--it was sort of the dark ages--and we had a little glimmer of hope during the Clinton years, and then we just really regressed back to the Pleistocene in the Bush administration.

So it’s very exciting to see this confluence of new leadership and a voice for change at the highest levels of government. But at the grassroots level, the tremendous enthusiasm for individual actions that will protect people and the planet. There’s a new awareness that people have, I think, that what we do to the environment, we do to ourselves and vice versa.

There’s also this great eagerness to do the right thing. So I’m just grateful that we’ve gotten to this point, and I hope it’s not too late. I don’t think that it is. I think we’ve got a few years left, and I’m grateful that we finally are all coming together.

Pontette said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

In these frighteningly tenuous times, I am once again thankful for my family, my husband and the fine young men who are our sons. I am thankful for our good friends and neighbors, both red and blue.

I am thankful that we have elected a man in whom I can place my severely bruised trust that he will honor and respect the ideals of the Constitution of the United States of America.

Lois Joy Johnson said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!
I know the usual response (and mine) is about good health, friends and family. This year I am most thankful to have stayed resilient, fluid, flexible and totally "up" despite a dramatic career transition. As one of the founding editors of MORE magazine and it's beauty and fashion director for ten years, the word reinvention was a familiar theme in our editorial pages. When it became a reality in my own life I was grateful to have at my fingertips all the skills, knowledge and versatility I've accrued in my years of writing, reporting, doing shoots and media appearances. Now I'm thankful to be able to call on that experience as creative fuel for the very exciting relaunch of my work and life. Work loss or job restructuring is practically an epidemic now among the community of women 50 + so I can only grin knowingly at our ability to adapt, change and move forward in the year ahead.
altheaj said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

I am so grateful that I have a job and my health and that my friends and family are doing well. Even in times like these I think you have to look for opertunities. Today my husband and I decided to invest in the stock market and mutual funds. We are optomistic that things will get better. Blessing to everyone and their families.

Bekah said to Beth - VN Host 11/18/2008, 08:39PM new!

I joined Vibrant Nation about a month ago, but I would like to say I'm very grateful to have been born in the day and & age I live in.  Our generation has been witness to so many miracle, advances in technology  and the ability become most anything we set our minds to.  I am thankful for family, friends of life long aquaintance & new friends.  I am grateful that as many mistakes and accomplishments I make I can still learn something new every day. I'm blessed by a chance to be creative and explore my "inner child ."   I am blessed to have choices.

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