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Hi GloJean,  I totally understand where you are coming from - have been there myself in a marriage.  It lasted 5 years and even married him twice.  Crazy?? Probably, but I had a son and they adored each other.  The son was 2 years old when I met this man and this man had no children.  Here is just something to think about, though--  How long have you been married?  Has he always been this way or when did it start? Could there may be physical problem that his is having and doesn't want to discuss?  What has been added to your lives or taken away about the time this started happening.  How old is he?  You say you love him but are you in love with him?  Good luck and I hope things work out for you. 

I can totally relate to your issue.  My hubby works almost 6 days a week -- sometimes 7...and we haven't had sex in months.  Oh yeah - forgot to mention that I found out he had an affair about a year ago -- so that might be the reason for no sex...ha ha....he doesn't seem to know how to relate to me sexually anymore.

Have you tried taking care of yourself while being beside him?  Usually, that takes care of it.  It's hard for guys to listen and not join in.

well, is he near retirement? Is he trying to work extra hours to build up your savings for retirement? Have you talked to him about that?  This is what my husband was doing before he retired....Working overtime to try and keep us at a certain level and also put money into savings.   This isn't a negative , but,  if you are feeling lonely and he is exhausted, you need to talk to him about his health and your happiness.  Sounds like a good man to me, but you guys need to talk about a date night at least once a week or two.   Time together will not only be what you want but also refresh him...  Let me tell you though, I sometimes miss my husband going to work....he is now here 24/7 and I miss some alone time...=]