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well i did it
posted 02/04/2010, 05:11PM new!

I finally told Don not to call me anymore.  The hardest thing I have ever done.  And I feel like crap!!!  I know it needed to be done. 

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Jender said to 123WASH 02/04/2010, 05:11PM new!

Good.

Now. 

Don't answer the phone.

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Sunblossom said to 123WASH 02/04/2010, 05:11PM new!

That is always such a hard step to take....and to stand your ground on.....now perhaps you can just take some time to breathe and regroup, to center yourself again....give yourself lots of time to do that.

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dynamomma said to 123WASH 02/04/2010, 05:11PM new!

You know what susanetx?  You followed your intuition!!  Now, that old ego is trying to tell you you did wrong and causing you to feel like crap.  So when that old crappy feeling comes around ask your ego what you are suppose to feel crappy about?  You think I'm kidding?  Pretend those feelings are another person and ask why they are there.  You stood up for yourself . . . you let Don know that there isn't room for you and the old girlfriend . . . you should be feeling very confident in your stance to demand better for yourself.  You deserve it.  Good job!!!

Katielli said to dynamomma 02/04/2010, 05:11PM new!

Amen! Good job! Now he is free to be with her and you are also free to be with someone more whole than him. You just never know what is around the corner! Nothing is wrong at all! All is right!

joyful53 said to 123WASH 02/04/2010, 05:11PM new!

Now you are one step closer to what you want, what you deserve.  Be strong and don't let that stupid little voice in your head get in your way.  You're on your way!

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