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Aftermath of a Rape
Here in Calcutta, the topic of the hour, the day, the month, is women’s place in society and men’s treatment of women. Since the death last month of a 23-year-old woman brutally…
read more »Elder Care: Make your instincts your friend
I was in my late forties when I decided to face the fact that shirking tough decisions was getting me nowhere.read more »
57-year-old Plays Ostrich
I’m no longer the kid who fled NYC for California, eager to define myself and see what was out there. The thought of moving is wrenching. I’d be a mighty ponderosa blown over in a gale, massive roots ripped from the ground.read more »
Beautiful By Any Standard
Recently I posted here about the easy beauty of Italian women. Which all got me wondering: is this focus on attractiveness a construct that only Western women care about? Sometimes it takes really getting out of my world to regain proper perspective. A perfect example of this came when I visited the Omo River tribes in Southern Ethiopia. read more »
What I Saw On Italy’s Streets
Notes from a traveler on the streets of northern Italy, reporting on what Italian women are eating, drinking and wearing. I’m not talking about the fashionistas of Milan, but the real Italian woman going about her daily business.read more »