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DMD1058
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Long story

Posted in family & relationships on May 12, 2013

Mine, as with most of us ladies I dare say, is a long story.  Married at the age of 21 (I’m now 57) to a man who loved me but I knew…

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Desperate for advice

Posted in family & relationships, love & sex, Members want to know on August 03, 2012
I am not attracted to my husband at all and 2 years ago met someone who I am very attracted to. HELP!!!read more »

56 and considering separation after 34 years

Posted in family & relationships, love & sex on October 08, 2011

Don’t know where to start really.  Advice and help needed.  I have been married since I was 21 to a man who have known all my life.  I am at a stage…

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my comments

Response to: My Divorce No Longer Defines Me

Comment posted on March 5, 2013 at 2:45 pm:
"Blondie, I am in exactly the same position, although my husband is very abrupt and I have had people tell me he is a bully!  I have a holiday home on the west coast of France (I live in the UK) and although not very well-off,  don't have a bad life..." (read comment)

Response to: My Divorce No Longer Defines Me

Comment posted on March 4, 2013 at 3:03 pm:
"Blondie - I am in the same position as you.  Still in a marriage that's not a marriage but living as if it is to the outside world.  I hope I'll "move on" one day in whatever form that takes.  Good to know I'm not alone...." (read comment)

Response to: sex and the sixty (year old):a bloody bad date

Comment posted on February 22, 2013 at 3:03 am:
"Renee, I have just read your comment about "if something is an issue, it doesn't depend on the other person" etc. and it was like a lightbulb moment for me!.  I have been trying to tell my husband for years about the way in which he speaks to me (he..." (read comment)

Response to: Why do people hang on to a bad situation

Comment posted on December 10, 2012 at 4:02 pm:
"Sandi - I feel from your post that you have entered inside my head!  So observational and exaclty how it is for me.  I am digging deep to find the courage to set us both free.  At the age of 57, I have been married since I was 21 to a man I've kno..." (read comment)

Response to: Why won't my husband have sex with me? Medical, Psychological, and Emotional blocks to sex in your marriage

Comment posted on December 1, 2012 at 4:05 am:
"I read this with interest, but the opposite is true for me.  I do suffer with pain on intercourse and have tried to address this medically.  I want a healthy sexual relationship (I am 57 but feel much younger and am generally very healthy), but, al..." (read comment)