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52, recently divorced, two grown sons, previously married 29 years - happier now than I've ever been. Live part of the year in USA and part in London.

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How did you get to where you are now?

Self discipline and memories of my mother's good advice.

How do you see yourself differently now than you did 10 years ago?

No longer under the thumb of my ex's manipulative family - now divorced and independent.  The change was a scary and lonely time, but I'm now feeling happy and every day of this freedom is a gift to be appreciated.  This new life has given me something to work for, the kind of hope that helps a person overcome depression.

I spend lots of time keeping in touch with friends in my old home town, and my sons of course, but I am gradually fitting in here in a new country.  Why did I run so far?  Haven't figured that out yet.  I guess I just didn't want to have to explain to a large number of acquaintances why I chose to divorce - I'd rather just leave quietly and start out again.

Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

Enjoying my new home, hopefully still in current relationship, doing as much as possible to help others less fortunate.  Likely a grandmother by then. 

a postcard to my younger self

Hey Jodie,

Thanks for working so hard and saving for the future.  You always had an image of your best friend, the 'older Jodie' and here we are now.  Thank you for keeping yourself in shape, all those hours in the gym and eating well were worth it...I still feel healthy and happy.

my role models

Various friends for their own unique reasons. Number one would be my Mom who was a great and courageous lady who died way too young.  Her voice still resonates when I am making decisions;  she died 22 years ago.

my posts

Jerusalem artichoke recipes?

Posted in home & garden on April 22, 2011

Just wondering if anyone has some creative ideas for dishes made with Jersalem artichokes? Also called the sunroot, earth apple, or topinambour.  They have such a lovely subtle flavour like regular artichoke,…

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2 books that may improve your sex life

Posted in books & entertainment, love & sex on April 08, 2011

I had a long term marriage in which sex was down about number 20 on the list of things we ever got around to. My ex was extremely inhibited…his idea of foreplay…

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After 30 years as a good sister-in-law, this is it?

Posted in family & relationships on April 04, 2011

Just wonder what readers think of this message from my now-ex sister-in-law – on the surface, pleasant, but do you perceive a level of anger that this is all someone says after…

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Need your wisdom and creativity

Posted in health & fitness on February 28, 2011

I learned a few months ago that my closest female friend (since age 18 and we are now both 53) has been diagnosed with advanced colorectal cancer.  She has had her first…

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Where to stay in Malaga, Spain

Posted in travel on January 23, 2011

A lifelong friend, who is 53 and dying of cancer, wants to take a last trip with me.  She is insistent on visiting Malaga, Spain and wants me to make arrangements.  I’ve…

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my comments

Response to: Tough love for job seekers

Comment posted on April 23, 2011 at 1:36 pm:
"You're so right about the thank you note.  In my job searches I've always had a positive response from interviewers who receive one from me.  One panelist even contacted me later about another job, and I'm sure it's because I sent the note...." (read comment)

Response to: Ciao, Ciao, Ciao - Eating My Way Through Italy

Comment posted on April 22, 2011 at 5:51 pm:
"How is it that with all the amazing food in Italy, that all Italians don't weigh, like, 400 pounds? When I go there, I just can't stop eating. ..." (read comment)

Response to: Biding my time before I leave

Comment posted on April 22, 2011 at 5:38 pm:
"KG,  I suppose the same basic principles apply in all situations - the more advance planning, the better the outcome.  Cynically, I suppose my advance planning started in the back of my mind and grew each time a potentially game-ending even..." (read comment)

Response to: dating soon after death of husband

Comment posted on April 22, 2011 at 5:14 pm:
"Rosiemay, Sounds a lot like my Dad's situation when my Mom died of cancer after a 2 year decline.  He nursed her to her last moment. I think two years is a long time to get used to the idea of the inevitable.  For him, it was not easy for ..." (read comment)

Response to: Jerusalem artichoke recipes?

Comment posted on April 22, 2011 at 4:53 pm:
"Yes, I usually cook them like roast potatoes, and they are delicious that way, but boring.  I've also done a puree and serve with shellfish.  However, the best recipes are usually those discovered by friends experimenting in the kitchen, no..." (read comment)